Seems Interested Sometimes, Other Times Not

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What does it mean when a woman texts you inconsistently?

What I mean by that is that for maybe a week she'll seem very interested and flirtatious, but then suddenly she'll hardly talk to me at all for another week, and when we do she seems very distant, typically until I ask if somethings up or if she's no longer interested. Then she'll go back to sounding very interested, and the cycle starts over again.

context with this specific woman; she hit on me first in high school and I was too spaghetti so we never did anything except for text. We would say very romantic things to each other and fantasize about a day where we'd actually meet in person but I was too much of a pussy to do anything. Eventually it got to the point where she'd text me as she was with other guys, promising that she 'loved' me and not them.

This time I don't want it to stick to texts and I want to meet up in person and see if we would actually physically be a workable couple. She agrees that we need to meet in person but no date has been set and I have this feeling that she doesn't really want to meet up. I've talked to her about that part, and she has assured me she does want to meet, but I'm not sure I buy it.

I feel fantastic when I'm talking to her and she's interested. Makes my fucking day. Then she'll get this way and I start thinking she's bored with me and I feel like shit, only for her to get my hopes up by acting interested agian.