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Dealing with my girlfriend's male best friend

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So there's this guy who's my girlfriend's best friend and he's mine too, he was the one who set us up, he's a really great guy.
The problem is that she's more comfortable with him than with me and it really doesn't help that I live 500km away from them most of the time so she sees him more than me.
By more comfortable I mean they seem more of a couple than me and her. I can't even hold her hand without her feeling uncomfortable.
She explains this by how distant I was before our relationship, we never talked irl and whenever we did it was super awkward (imagine two awkward teenagers who like each other), so that wall that built up between us during that time is still kinda there, of course we both do some efforts to try and improve that, but it doesn't work at all with her.
Also they both are koreaboos and I'm not so whenever we're out the three of us they never stop talking about it.
And she mentioned once that he's as important to her as me and it doesn't help that I'm super jealous.
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>>18565297
LDRs, not even once anon.

She's gonna be craving dick and you won't be there to supply it.
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>>18565301
That's the least of my worries, she's a 100% virgin, I even gave her her first kiss, and the only time she saw a dick it was accidentally on Facebook.
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>>18565297
>girlfriend's male best friend
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>>18565342
Yeah, sure. Whatever you need to tell yourself man.
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>>18565297
>can't be comfortable in the same room together

Why are you even dating?
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>>18565297
>Live ~300 miles away from your 'gf'
>She clearly likes this other dude more.
>Doesn't even like holding hands.

I don't know what to tell you mate. It doesn't sound good.
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>>18565380
we've never been in the same room together, she's uncomfortable while being outside since she's practically a shut in.
>>18565383
yeah I know but I'm here for /adv/ice cmon
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>>18565394
Ok anon. Important question here. You and her live very far apart. How long will this situation last? Are there concrete plans to live closer to eachother in the near future? This is the crux of the issue, not the guy. Although to be honest what you've described so far doesn't really sound like a relationship but who knows.
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>>18565394
You had this same thread yesterday
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>>18565408
I'll go back to my town in 1 month, usually I spend 9 months at my hometown where she lives bc that's where I study, but I go see my parents (500km) whenever I have a holiday, right now I've been on a 2 month holiday, I've seen her once these past two months bc I had to pass some entrance test for a uni there.
Can you develop the part about it not being a relationship ? desu I don't know anything about relationships and she's as ignorant as me afaik.
>>18565417
If I found advice in my last thread I wouldn't have created another one.
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>>18565297
Dude break up. There's no point in continuing that relationship.
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>>18565440
>I want advice
Break up
>no
>I want advice
You can pretend like it not advice but it is. You just don't want it. Sounds like you're livening in fantasy land were everything goes your way and there's no hard choices. I didn't know 10 year olds could enroll into college.
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>>18565297
Game over, man.

You're competing and are at a huge disadvantage.
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>>18565297
> I can't even hold her hand without her feeling uncomfortable.

Are you 13 or something? Maybe start dealing with your own issues before you worry about your girlfriend and her friend. This shit isn't normal.
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>>18566246
God dammit, ignore the green text, it wasn't supposed to be there.
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>best friend is male

I don't get it. I just don't get you people. This is a big red flag. And then you spouted all that other bullshit about it being even worse than it is. Why don't you people see the signs?
Do you guys like to be miserable? Do you like the uncertainty? I don't get it.

DUMP HER YOU STUPID BITCH
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>>18566406
Hold up. My best friend of 25 years is a woman. I've known her since I was six. She basically my sister. We're both happily involved with other people.

Red flags are warnings. Things you have to keep an eye on, not actual reasons to break up with someone.
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>>18566434
Not the same thing! I'm talking about females that have a male friend, not the other way.
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>>18566441
...... Just..... you know what? Not even going to bother.
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