Am i a piece of shit? I may have a 3 year old kid who i have

Transform and roll out.

>>18564574
Been doing that for a year and half by now.

What do you mean "may have"? Before you come to ask for advice, make sure it's yours for realsies.

>>18564565
I wouldn't necessarily say you are a piece of shit if you never knew.

It is what you do now that you do know that determines if you are a piece of shit or not.

Well i was in a relationship for 4 years, she seem loyal to me, we started to live together and then we break up and got together weeks later then she got pregnant.

We were fine qhith it i always wanned a kid, so i started saving money for the hospital i got screwed in a scam job, so i lost my savings and she left me because of that i tried to explain but she just didint wanna see me, i started giving money to she for like 2 years hoping she would see im being honest but she never even messaged me, i was there the day the baby was born she told the cops that she didint wanned me near.

I feel like the kid is mine but you know how rhis is nothing is safe.

>>18564671
I feel like a piece of shit anon, theres a kid out there whithout a father, a kid just like me..

Its been 3 years by now i tried to move on i have a new gf now that loves and i adopted 2 ducks that fill the void in my chest but i still wonder about him.