me:skinny,mid term soft.eng., ,22, simple, like to talk things out, no bs.
my father, engineer, around 65, chubby guy, always got something going on, shady af.
I live with my mother, she humble got her probs but she always manges to get ou of them,
currently really stressed cause of poor choices.
So, i decided to move with my dad to ease thing's out for her, dad ask's for me to get my legal stuff (drivers licence,papers up to date etc..).
He's always pushing me to finish college and forget about working meanwhile, i got it and started to do so, now all of a sudden he wants me to start working for some company noted as something im not(counselor or something), dont know shit about that wtf, then he wants me to get a phone for him for "father's day" ( using my credit which i had never used in my whole life before) stating that he would pay for it just to benefit my credit.
So i remembered in my 18th birthday a call that i had from my sisters warning me about my dad getting me into some financial issues and the mentioned something about not funded checks, so i asked him "dad why did my sisters told me that".
Shit
He started behaving differently defensive, he wanted to listen "every word i'd say", i explained what happenned what my sisters had told me and other shady stuff he did (which he did justified well), then he starts telling me that he's going to be the same as others if he speaks, that hes got money to buy himself a phone, that he has a lot of money on him for a friend and he has it because they trust him.
then he ask's if i trust him, i said i do, he doesnt believe me a bit, he started driving me home i told him not to i wanted to keep talking fuck that shit i dont like leaving shit unfinished, he says "you are gonna go to your house sit on a chair and think if you can trustme, i'll go to my home and do the same", also mentioning dirty little secrets i had on school and how he decided not to leave me.
really confused
advice appreciated