So I met this guy online. Talked for a bit, exchange numbers and settled a meeting.
>first date was great. We talked nonstop. We hitting off.
>no text received from him which is fine because I told him I'll text him when he said tell him if I wanna hangout again.
>text a little but through out days after
>making a plan for hiking which I offered to do something else
>but he never mentioned about when or where to meet
>tomorrow is suppose to be another meeting for us
>no text no phone call
>I was the one texted him last
>don't wanna be the one initiating the text since I did it before.
>what do now?
Did I just got ghosted?
Yes.
>>18563567
But he kept asking me for another date not me?!?
Is this what men usually do to say No?
>>18563583
I don't know.
Call him?
>>18563606
So I told him I will be free after a certain time tmr and if he calls or text me before that time to settle where and when to meet should I still go? Or ignore it since he doesn't show any interest?
>>18563613
Call him.
>>18563606
>>18563687
if I ever see a girl I've been on one date with call me, I cringe soo fucking hard and ignore it. just text him. if he doesn't answer your texts, he's damn sure not gonna answer your call.
>>18563697
Because you're gay.
>>18563701
Just some iron clad logic there. Great argument.
>>18563565
I'd do one last, "Hey, we still on for tomorrow?"
And if he gets back to you, he gets back to you.
If he doesn't get back to you today, write off and move on.
Don't over-think, don't get passive aggressive or emotional, just take it one step at a time and see what's up.
>>18563697
But what if he text me tmr to set up the where and when to meet. Should I follow? Or ignore him cause this guy's playing games?
>>18563565
>>don't wanna be the one initiating the text since I did it before.
>>what do now?
>Did I just got ghosted?
Just childish
Message him a time and if he doesn't reply then you got ghosted
>>18563741
if he texts you, of course you should go... you're being way too needy and clingy. give the dude some space. if he gets back to you, then he's into you.
>>18563749
Well actually I'm not needy at all. I don't text or call or anything at all.
Tmr is supposed to be our date and I heard nothing from him. And I don't even call him yet? How is this making me clingy?!?
>>18563756
This thread
>>18563760
Oh come on. You're a fucking joke lol
>>18563776
I'm not
>>18563749
Just saying how it is