Just found out that my ex-girlfriend fucked the guitarist to

>>18563294
I'm also a guitarist/singer songwriter myself and for some reason I feel a strange mixture of inadequacy and betrayal. Kinda weird.

>>18563294
She's your ex, who cares what she did. Also even back then I knew Surfer Blood were one of the fakest most bandwagoning indie bands, figures they were just in it for the groupies.

>>18563309
I know I shouldn't care but I just do. I know she's a whore. She actually cheated with my former best friend and that's why we broke up. I still can't seem to write her off for it. haven't even communicated with her in months.

>>18563294
oh, rad, I like that band

>>18563345
What is it that makes you keep caring? Do you feel you left unfinished business with her? Do you need clarification on something?

>>18563758
No. I just obsessively think about her and everything that happened between us every day.

>>18563778
Well at this point you just gotta get over her. I know its easier said than done, but you must find a way to get over her.
Everyone has their way of getting over something tragic that happened to them but here are some general advices:
-Try investing into hobbies, or hanging out with friends, distracting yourself in any way you can.
-Accept that what its done is done, accept this and try to move on from there.
-Maybe even talk about this to someone. Venting can be EXTREMELY helpful believe it or not. (don't do it too frecuently tho, it might get tiresome. But doing it once in a while or not making a big drama or crying scenary is adequate).
Also you can write down how you feel everyday, trust me, it works to get rid of the pain momentarily.