Breakup Woes

>>18562908
>Our relationship was rocky at the best of times

what do you mean by this?

>>18562928

We were/ are to very different people. She's 27 and I'm 34. She's big on going out and having fun (But still responsible) and I'm more relaxed and a homebody. We didn't have much in common besides wanting to have a family.

Update: Her brother (Big animal guy) came and picked up the fish. So I feel a little better.

>>18563011

Sounds like she's a slut bro. Good riddance. Girls who still party hard at 27 are nothing but whores trying to hold onto their slipping youth, lets be real here.

You would have had to wait till her biological clock went off, or knocked her up for any chance of staying with her.

Learn your lesson and move on to someone more compatible.

>>18563833
Seriously this. I stay the fuck away from party girls reaching their late 20s. Find a nice 26 to 30 year old who wants to settle down. There are a ton of them at your age op. Im the same age as you.

>>18563833
I thought it was just me being low energy and what not. I wouldn't call her a party girl because she's a teacher and doesn't let her lust for life mess with her responsibilities (She has a lot).

I'll look for an older woman definitely, or at the very least one who is done with the wild stuff.

>>18563970

If lust for life is pouring alcohol into herself, and being around horny drunk guys that want to fuck her, even if she was not cheating is still being a whore, and having no respect for you.

>>18563980

Strangely enough, she stopped going to bars when we were in a relationship because I don't like them-- loud, stinky, and "Fun," when I'm getting ready for bed. I went with her to a few engagement parties, a wedding and stuff like that, but she was upset because I just didn't enjoy myself. She was also mad that I wore my tie wrong because my shirt was too tight at a wedding.

She also liked to go out on dates with me, but I'm a complete homebody who prefers, for example, to stream a movie rather then go to the movies.

The only thing we only really had in common is that we both wanted as many kids as we could love and afford. She has a temper and I'm laid back. I thought opposites would attract, but I guess not. We still have to work around one another (Both teachers at the same School), so we tried to end it as civilly as possible.

Thanks for the advice friends. I don't think she was bad, just immature in several ways. I'll definitely look for someone more my speed in the future.