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How can I stop loving someone? I fell in love with one of my

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How can I stop loving someone? I fell in love with one of my friends. It was fun at first, and I was planning on asking her out. But then I learnt that she was sort of seeing someone already. So I want to either stop loving her, or at least bury my feelings deep enough that we can continue being friends. Because she is a really a good friend, I don't want to lose her by being an idiot.

I imagine someone will suggest finding someone else. This is very difficult because I live in a small town and there isn't anyone else I'm really interested in, otherwise I would have done this immediately.
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What you feel isn't love, anon. Love is mutual and reinforced by reciprocation. You haven't even experienced sexual pleasure with her, so you don't even have reinforcement from oxytocin or her scent. You certainly haven't experienced her love. Just remind yourself of how pathetic you are for feeling this way about your friend who doesn't feel anything for you while she gets Chad's dick deeper in her pussy than you could ever reach. Were you really dreaming of kissing those lips that were sliding up and down Chad's shaft as she blew him last night? Forget her, if you don't like tasting Chad's cum when you kiss her and she doesn't kiss you back. She's gone, move on.
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Not OP but in a similar position
>>18561850
>What you feel isn't love
You know what he means. Infatuation, oneitis, whatever.
>Just remind yourself of how pathetic you are
Don't need a reminder mang
>That shit about tasting Chad's cum
I may not know her scent but at least I know she brushes her teeth
>She's gone, move on.
Stellar advice right there, I bet OP never thought of that

>>18561742
If dating someone else is out of the question, then you got two options
1: Keep getting to know her as a friend, but do you absolute hardest to find flaws. Reach if you have to (For me, I had reasons like "she has an annoying dad" and "he likes Big Bang Theory" to convince myself a relationship wasn't gonna work. Pathetic, I know, but its been working)
That being said
>she was sort of seeing someone
That sounds like the opposite of an engagement. You know more than I do about her, but you don't have to give up so easily.

But finding someone else really is the best way of getting over someone. Unless your town has a population of 15, you would be surprised by some of the women you may have been unintentionally ignoring. Online is also an option
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>>18561996
Just as a clarifier, I meant to say "SHE likes Big Bang Theory." Wasn't referring to the dad, I'm not THAT pathetic
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>>18561996
Thanks anon, I'll try this.

I said "sort of seeing someone" because I don't really understand myself. She likes this guy a lot, but I don't know if it's mutual or if he even knows. They certainly don't see each other very often (I definitely see her more often). Don't know what that means though.

So I haven't totally given up but I don't have a lot of hope because he's a normal person and I'm a guy who posts on 4chan.
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