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Is "everybody must be good at something" true?

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I was always in gifted classes, always got good grades and test scores, seemed to be "smart" in school, but could never get the hang of anything I tried to learn due to a combination of lack of motivation and inability to internalize new concepts.
>play guitar since 3rd grade, still only half decent and not nearly as good as my friend who picked it up last year
>try to learn Japanese, all the kanji and grammar jumble in my brain forcing me to give up
>try to learn sailing, can't get my head around why you push the tiller away when you tack but you pull it in when you gybe, nothing makes sense, 420s always capsize when I'm the skipper
>try to read philosophy, don't understand shit and can't keep attention span up for long enough to finish books
>can't debate at all, keep switching my political views because I can't decide which makes more sense because I lack the ability to think critically
>shit at every video game I try to learn except games like Pokemon and Terraria which require no skill
>shit at every scholastic subject (science, math, history, etc.)
I manage to hold my own and seem like I know what's going on but there's absolutely nothing I excell at and nothing that piques my interest. Why is this? Is the idea that everyone is destined for something just Christian mumbo jumbo? Is it "wasted potential" if a gifted kid with a privileged upbringing can't accomplish anything noteworthy for the rest of his life, or is it all too common for rich A students to end up as plumbers and construction workers?
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>>18561164
You can either see it as you are not good at ANYTHING and bring yourself down.

Or

You can see it as you can be a jack of trades and be average at a lot of stuff, which is what i prefer to be, makes you have more interesting things to say and talk about.

All this of course is based on your world view of stuff.

Not everyone can be an ace, but a jack isn't so bad either.
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Someone posted this bingo chart on /int/ which is what triggered me to make this thread, this summed up my thoughts very succinctly (again, I tend to ramble because I'm not smart enough to use my words wisely and descriptively), so just throwing this in since my OP was kinda haphazard.
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>>18561173
But what is a jack of all trades' end game? How does their life play out?
The saying is "jack of all trades, master of none, but sometimes more useful than a master of one," but I don't see how, practically, someone knowing a little bit of German and a little bit of Calculus is more useful than hiring two specialists.
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>>18561175
It's a meme...
Don't let it dictate what/who you are...
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>>18561187
But it's freaky accurate and touches on something that I've already been struggling with regardless of the meme, it just summed it up pretty well is all. It's not like I saw someone post it and all of the sudden all of the problems it mentioned started popping up.
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Not to get too meta on this but you seem to be very good at defeating yourself. So you've got that going for you. Which is nice.

There's a whole world of talents. You've tried maybe a dozen? I met a guy who was a masterful micro surgeon but was about worthless at doing literally anything else. So buck up buttercup.
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I'm naturally good at rhythm games.

Is it useless? Yeah, I guess. Should I discount the fact I'm good at it? Nope! Just makes me happy knowing I'm good at something.

Oh and I'm good at lying and advertising, which goes hand in hand lol.
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>>18561573
I forgot to mention in my OP that I am slowly getting better at osu, which is pretty much the most promising skill I have so far, but I'm still pretty average and have no clue when I'll hit a wall.
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>>18561164
>iktf

I don't even have any advice for you. I'm just posting so you know you hit me in the feels.
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>>18561164
>I was always in gifted classes, always got good grades and test scores, seemed to be "smart" in school,
You weren't smart. You were adept at regurgitating the random factoids that your teacher wanted.
>lack of motivation
You're lazy
>inability to internalize new concepts
Dumb Dumb

Pretty much every example you gave ends with "but it was hard so I gave up". Unless you're a savant the only way to become truly skilled at something is hard work over a long period of time.
If I had to make an assumption I'd say that you're a slightly above average IQ kid who learned how to game the school system to get good grades. Your good grades inflated your ego ("I was a gifted kid") and made you adverse to busting your ass at something until you improve. That's why you're not good at anything.
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>>18563244
>You're lazy
Do you have any advice on how to overcome laziness? I want to be able to do something of value.
>Your good grades inflated your ego ("I was a gifted kid")
Who are you quoting? I said "I was always in gifted classes." That's a factually correct statement. I don't see myself as intelligent, in fact my entire post is about how I can't seem to do anything right.
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>>18563320
>Do you have any advice on how to overcome laziness? I want to be able to do something of value.
Work harder. Identify the reasons why you procrastinate and shrug off hard work and fix them.
>>18563320
>Who are you quoting?
You. You're entire OP reeks of the modern phenomena of "I'd be smart if I tried" kids.
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