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>literally 20 years old
>ugly as fuck and been told this online and IRL
>kissless virgin, never had a girl interested in me, never asked a girl out
>have not had friends since I was 12 or 13 years old
>go through high school a friendless loser, carries over to college because I don't know how to be any different, miserable loser in college
>have a meh GPA, don't know how to network at all because of no social media
>living with parents (don't really mind this tho)
>the life of complete social isolation and misery means I have no hope in anything anymore and have no reason to even try for anything in life
>went to a therapist a couple of months ago, never went again because I felt like she was judging me
>getting angry at women when I see them with other men due to how easy it must be for them and knowing I'll never compete
>and to top it all off I can only masturbate to fucking cuckold pornography now due to a massive inferiority complex

Not having friends kills any motivation you could ever want to do anything in life. Every damn thing. Even if a girl did show interest in me now and straight up said she wanted to have sex, I would surely reject or ignore her out of fear about my lack of experience. I probably wouldn't even want to hang out with people because I would have no clue how to act with them.

I don't even know if it's possible for therapy, medication, anything to fix me at this point but if I could, how could I fix all of these /adv/?
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>>18560880
>Major in nuclear engineering
>Attain 4.0 gpa
>make money
>get plastic surgery,
Women will now sleep with you regardless of your experience in bed.
>gain confidence
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Hey dude, you have a huge potential! If you wait 10 years more, you will become a black wizard, you'll get terrible powers! So don't waste time with pussies, don't worry about that, just chillax and wait till your 30th birthday
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>>18560880
Ditch cuck porn. Stop seeking external validation.
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I doubt you look as bad as you think you do. Post picture and we can tell you what you can do. Go ahead and put a black bar over your eyes if you are afraid of leet 4chan hackers finding you.

Either way get fit, stop jerking off to porn all together, start meditating. Once you fix your body and gain some confidence then you can work on the friends part.
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>>18561051
You're not wrong but that's easy advice
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I'm just like you but older.
I guess it will hard trying to rationalize this at 20. Can't deny that I went through some turmoil myself, but basically the gist is this: society tells you that a man's worth is defined by how sexually active he is, you just need to distance yourself from this view and look for your own.

Like, would you say the Pope is a loser just because he never fucked? There's a surprising amount of virgins out there, and the fact they didn't have sex doesn't make their lives any less meaningful.
You need to look into yourself and ask: is this such a big deal for me? If it is, you are sorta admitting that you need to put in whatever effort is required, grooming, lowering your standards, the whole thing. If it isn't, there's no point really forcing yourself since the cons outweight the pros for you.

I stopped trying to "make friends" and accepted isolation because I realized social interactions were way more painful for me than what I'd be getting out of it. This is me. I don't envy people with lots of friends and gfs since it obviously comes natural for them, but I'm not them and I need to find my own personal equilibrium. I hope you'll find your own.

Alternatively, you could find another therapist. they aren't all the same and maybe you'll find a better connection with another one.
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>>18561090
>I doubt you look as bad as you think you do. Post picture and we can tell you what you can do. Go ahead and put a black bar over your eyes if you are afraid of leet 4chan hackers finding you.
>posting your face on 4chan
Yeah no thanks m8. And my eyes are my best bit bout me anyways.

>>18561051
>Ditch cuck porn. Stop seeking external validation.
How do I do this? I have nothing good about myself to feel proud of.

>>18561190
>I guess it will hard trying to rationalize this at 20. Can't deny that I went through some turmoil myself, but basically the gist is this: society tells you that a man's worth is defined by how sexually active he is, you just need to distance yourself from this view and look for your own.
>Like, would you say the Pope is a loser just because he never fucked? There's a surprising amount of virgins out there, and the fact they didn't have sex doesn't make their lives any less meaningful.
>You need to look into yourself and ask: is this such a big deal for me?
I'm not obsessed with it but I do want to experience it like (most) normal human beings do.
>If it is, you are sorta admitting that you need to put in whatever effort is required, grooming, lowering your standards, the whole thing. If it isn't, there's no point really forcing yourself since the cons outweight the pros for you.
I don't even know where to begin. Gymming and grooming myself sounds simple enough but I don't know how the fuck I talk to people, let alone women.
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>>18560880
bump
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>>18560880
pls respond
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