Is flirting supposed to be verbal or nonverbal? I suppose it's

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Is flirting supposed to be verbal or nonverbal?

I suppose it's supposed to be a mix of both, but i can't wrap my head around 'dirty talk' and sexting. It seems so awkward if you have never fucked the girl before. If i have and it was a regular thing, i would probably randomly text her that i feel like cumming in her mouth if i was feeling horny. But to approach a girl and start making sexual comments seems weird to me.

Every time i did anything sexual with a girl (still a virgin but came close a time or two), no flirting was done verbally, not one sexual comment was said. The last girl i did anything with was at a party. We were simply just getting to know each other, having normal conversation about our jobs and whatnot while playing beer pong. Then when she handed me a ball, she grasped my hand for a moment and felt up my forearm. I escalated a bit by patting her on the back when she scored, then nonchalantly slid my hand down and grabbed her ass.

Next thing you know we were outside after the game making out furiously, rubbing each other's privates. Pretty sure i could have gotten laid that night but people were following us around being cockblocks. Should have just proceeded without giving a fuck but oh well.

Anyways, is that doing it right? Keep in mind this was some sloot at a party, so it was pretty easy. Now going on dates, i struggle with taking things to a sexual level.