sad sadist

>>18560435
So you plan on cheating?

>>18560458
yeah, I feel like she'd cheat on her boyfriend. I'm not dating anyone atm and she knows that.

>>18560469
Secretly record you two fucking then send it to her bf

>>18560489
or just keep fucking her

>>18560435
So you plan on cheating?

>>18560489
Yes do this

>>18560489
>>18560500
might actually do this, the boyfriend is such a cringelord faggot. he'd probably cry. i'd drink his tears.
>>18560497
if it goes over well i prolly will. the question is how to come across as a convincing sadist, when im not at all. i'm almost afraid I wont get hard when the time comes after smacking her around or whatever. i dont wanna see her in pain but its her biggest turn on.

>>18560469
Just be really rough with her. I was rough with my ex. I would bite her, spank her and choke her a bit with my tie and she fucken loved it.

>>18560506
I was thinking i'd tie my belt round her neck like a leash and spank her. spanking seems to be her biggest thing

>>18560511
Spank her if she doesn't do what you want. Make it seem forced that You're punishing her and it'll make her soaking. Also bite her in meaty places.

>>18560519
should I act like i don't want to..? like that she deserved it and that I didnt wanna?

>>18560539
nigga just fucking bite chunks out of her ass

>>18560543
swallow them too??

>>18560539
Hell no. Don't do it if you don't want to. She deserved it, yes, but if it seems like you're not enjoying it then it's no fun.

Dont be a cunt man, I know shes a thot and needs to get patrolled but dont fuck her if you know she has a bf. If you want to get her to leave him for you then fair game but dont fuck a girl if she has a bf.

call me a moralfag all you like, thottery is gender neutral

>>18560539
Make it seem like a punishment for her

>>18560569
I agree. I told my ex brake up with her boyfriend of 4 years if she wanted to do something with me and she did

>>18560562
nah man I'm sorry but my decision is made. like, i've already got to do it. the advice im looking for is how to be a proper sadist.
>>18560569
>>18560575
this guy treats her so bipolar. like, he'll be all loving on social media and then he'll yell at her and get into pointless arguments. she's the only girl ive ever felt continuous compassionate love for. I want to get her away from him and i've tried everything else. this is my one chance. i admire your morals, but I'm thinking if I fuck her she'll leave him for me.

it's op, she just texted me right now and asked me to bring alcohol. maybe that'll help me.

>>18560435
>being male and not being a dom
I feel like that's some failure on your genetics if you're not sadistic around girls.

>>18560605
yeah, more like a failure in my upbringing. I was the only boy in a family of 3 girls. psychologically i'm forced to be that sensitive cuddly loving guy to women. poetry and wine and a movie type shit. I dont fuckin hit girls.

>>18560435
>I'd hate to smack her around and whip her

There used to be a British comedian that had a tv show a la Benny Hill that also aired in AMerica. Dave something or other....ANyway, I remember him telling a joke as follows:

Sadist and masochist hook up. Sadist ties up the masochist and brings out the whips and chains and sits in a chair and watches the masochist. The masochist asks the sadist if he is going to beat him. The sadist says no.....

Maybe you could try this approach.

>>18560658
>sadist says no
the ultimate denial of pleasure. this is true sadism, wow.

Threads like this are the reason I don't think its wrong to tell your significant other to see their ex/hang out with their ex regularly.

>>18560732
agreed. her man wanted to act like a bitch and now i'm going to abuse + fuck his girl. tantalizing.

>>18560435
Remember there's a difference between dominance and sadism. Dominance is about power. Sadism is about pain. Both are important. Don't confuse them.

>>18560759
wouldn't a masochist like her want both anyways?

OP you know if you spank her hard her ass is going to bruise and her boyfriend is going to see it.

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>>18560770
I know... I realized this earlier but then I also realized that if he notices, they could get into a relationship threatening fight. I know if they have an argument big enough, they'll spit and she wont go back to him. she'll come crawling..... to me

>>18560768
She almost certainly wants both, and there's a fair amount of overlap between the two, since it's only from a position of power that one can cause another person pain.

But if she's into actual pain, then she'll want more things like being spanked, whipped, caned, having her nipples twisted and bitten. That's a different playground than the dominance playground of choking, ordering her to perform, degrading her, fucking her roughly.

She'd probably get off fine with just a very rough fucking, but a real masochist will have an even better orgasm from a merely good fucking mixed with real pain.

Don't overthink it, the worst thing a dominant-sadist can do is to act like they don't know what they're doing. That completely ruins the moment for the sub. Just know there's a big difference between choking someone with your belt and using that belt to whip their ass.

>>18560793
you seem very informed. are you a dom yourself? and are you saying I cant choke her with the belt AND whip her ass with it separately?

I doubt she's a real masochist, she just likes the male attention she gets from it (hence she came to you about it instead of her boyfriend)

If you don't want to scare the shit out of her, just do fake masochist shit like light choking, hair pulling, rough grabbing, ass spanking, etc. Don't actually hurt her. If she seems bored, THEN turn it up a bit.

>>18560805

you'd better REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING if you do this--especially while you're drinking. Things could go very bad...

>>18560817
no she's tried to get the boyfriend to do it. he's too much of a softy. I think I will start small and work up, though.

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>>18560823
worst case scenario i fuck around and kill her, and then I would simply use the gun my dad keeps at the condo to promptly kill myself. I'd stream it here for you guys, of course

>>18560828
is what she told you.

t. professional attention whore

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>>18560612
>poetry and wine and a movie type

>>18560839
who knows, i guess. regardless this is a better outcome than me being the boyfriend being cheated on.

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>>18560578

kill yourself

>>18560860
I'm getting my nut in first. i love her more than that limp dick faggot ever could.

>>18560805
Definitely a dominant (though not for pay, I prefer to have dominance and pain be a freely-given gift).

You can do whatever you like, I just wanted to point out how power and pain are different things, like up-down is different than left-right.

Very, very, very serious advice: as a novice, do NOT try serious breath play, impact play, or bondage without training and an understanding of anatomy. Using your hands to gently squeeze her throat is one thing. Using a rope or a belt to completely close her airway is utterly (and dangerously) different. It's possible to do serious damage to internal organs with seemingly light caning or paddling, and cause permanent nerve damage with improper rope work. Either take classes or at least watch a fuckton of instructional videos before doing anything serious.

What will work in your favor is she isn't experienced in her desires, and she's desperate for anything at all. So you can do very safe things like spank her hard, bite her neck and twist her nipples, put your hand over her mouth or squeeze her throat (gently), throw her around and order her to service you - all of which are safe - and she'll be a lot happier than what she's getting now.

Be careful, play safe, have fun.

>>18560845
>>18560861
>>18560748

lol, its pathetic how jealous of her bf you are

you realize how you sound right?

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>>18560878
yeah. of course i'm jealous. even if he's the cuck who's gf i'm about to smash, he's also the cuck who gets to tell people she's his girlfriend and it literally makes me depressed. i feel like if I fuck her ill still be depressed if they dont break up as a result, be it because they get in a fight or because she realizes she wants me back.

>>18560878
Indeed, and this is a very big red flag.

A good dominant understands that even though it appears he's the one in control and with the power, *he works for the submissive*.

The danger with OP is he's still in the place of thinking he's working for his own pleasure (driven by his own envy and insecurity) - which will ultimately destroy everything.

>>18560876
wow thanks this is really helpful. because i was gonna try the belt thing, and I could have really fucked her up. thank you so much

>>18560893
so essentially i have to transform into the mindset that I am pleasuring her through sadism to satisfy her, and not that I'm pleasuring her to make myself feel good? because i've been jerking it to bdsm porn trying to convince myself its all for me

>not a dom
>pretends to be a dom
Lmao you're a fucking pretentious faggot, that's what you are you jealous little bitch. I'll tell you something, the sub can fucking SMELL your insecurities once you go at it and she'll see right through your bullshit. Trust me, all the bullshit you talked to her about domming girls in the past, yeah she'll call your bluff and drie up as soon as she realizes how insecure, clueless and inexperienced your interaction is.

A dom ultimately ALWAYS works to please his sub, as twisted as it may sound. And they can feel every last little mistake you make. Have fun ;)

Ps: hands off ANY bondage without proper training under supervision. People have gone to jail for murder because of their own incompetence.

>>18560435
is there a single girl in existence who doesn't like this stuff? wtf.

>>18560435
Will give you an advice op. I'm no guru on Girls but i have been in 4 relationships and work as a nurse for 9 years, often being the only male on shift.

Girls Are very good at picking up on your mood and feelings. They can tell from your voice and can Almost always pick up if you Are lying. They Are creatures of feelings after all. If you can't convince her that you enjoy the sadism and she feels you Are forcing yourself, your cover Will be blown. Unless you can think up a sob story to play with her feelings again. Something like "i haven't done this in a long time" or something.

If you learn to play with feelings you can get Almost any girl.

I get the feeling the girl you talk to knows you Are bullshitting her. But at least you Are brave enough to talk about it. And that turns her on. I think Even if you can't be sadist on first fuck she won't mind. You already won her over and she's down to fuck.

Almost all girls have experienced being approached by men who talk bullshit with them. You Are not the first one for her. But maybe you Are the first one who talks openly about sadism and that makes her wet and ready to fuck.

Good luck anon. I believe you already won her over. As long as you get hard and manage to hit her a few times she won't be mad at you. Maybe she Even Will confront you about not being sadist, but telling you its okay to practice on her or something.

>>18560435
The ultimate masochist says "Beat me, whip me, hurt me."

The ultimate sadist says "No"

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>>18560505
>might actually do this, the boyfriend is such a cringelord faggot. he'd probably cry. i'd drink his tears.
Well you see, there you go. Sadism for beginners.

Buton a more serious note, watch some "Upper Floor" porn for ideas. Bitch slapping, hart titt squezzing, edging, choking are nice for the beginning. Buy some neddle well and bind her to the bad. Enjoy. Throat fucking is also good.

t. maso gril

>>18562263
Hahaha that's great

>>18561566
Come down, OPs gril is probably 5 shades of shit maso, so she won't know shit if OP can get his shit together. Sure, don't hang her from the ceiling or choke her till shes blue but everything else is vanilla+.