How do you stop yourself from doing shit something inside your head is telling you to? We don't have free will at all.
I came out from an abusive relationship and worked on getting successful. Built a nice career for myself. Now I have something telling me I need another woman again and I can't avoid it feeling like I need it.
That's nice that you have a job. I am a 31/yo hermit and my head keeps telling me, "kys" everyday.