Leaving first Girlfriend

>In similar situation
>Monitoring thread
>She's depressed though so leaving her would leave her mentally scarred and I'm not ready for that

Been there, done that. just over a month ago.

i got lucky dude, i told her i wanted to do psychedelics plus i had tried adderall and she lost all respect for me and ghosted me.

i wasn't strong enough to tell her, so this was truly a gift of my freedom.

you need to tell her even though it sucks.. even on text dude just get out while you still can

>>18559797
How long have you been dating? Not feeling the "spark" is normal in long-term relationships because the lust phase will wear off eventually.

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Bout 6 weeks...

>>18559863
Aye yeah that's a little soon for those new relationship hormones to wear off. Normally it takes anywhere from a few months to a couple years.

Just be honest with her, bring it up gently. Tell her she's wonderful but you're just not feeling it anymore and you'd rather go your separate ways than string her along.

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>>18559867
Thanks anon, honestly I'm just dreading of going about it.
Texting her is out of the question, and I cynically believe she's going to break down and cry when I do tell her.

>>18559891
Iktfb. It's not going to be easy and will hurt no matter how you go about it. But it will only get worse the longer you put it off.

Good luck, anon, I believe in you.

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>>18559904
Thanks for listening and helping with my problems dude

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>>18559910
No problem, that's what we're here for. Godspeed.

>>18559863
six weeks? oh man you're fine it's not even gonna hurt lmao i was with my ex for four years when this set in

>>18559797
If you know shes heads over heels, and a lovely person, youre going to regret it.
I made the same mistake, realized all i let go of. Now shes getting dicked by some other guy, and im constantly reminded of my "first love".

>>18559891
I was in the same boat. She cried for like 3 minutes straight and I left and she was still crying. I still have sex with her now, but haven't in a week and have to break it to her again because I don't find her attractive really anymore, but can't tell her because that would hurt her feelings a lot more.

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>>18559956
That's the thing anon, I really don't feel anything for her.
It's mostly been lust and now that the oxytocin has faded I realize she's not even that attractive

And I feel like a shallow s.o.b. for even saying it

>>18560003
Dump her. Worst thing is you find noone else, but you could do better. Better being alone than with someone you feel nothing for.