First, this is one of those relationship questions, I know it's a topic many people don't like to talk about but I have no gay friends and I only got you bros.
Second, I met this amazing guy and we've been fooling around for like 3 months almost every day. We agreed on FWB and been having a blast, one month after meeting he said that he doesn't want me to have sex with other guys and that he liked me, I told him I can't promise because I don't know, this is not what we agreed on. Our friendship then took a strange turn, he started to detach while I get more and more attached to him. 2 Days ago he said that he doesn't want us to fool around anymore and remain as friends only, no sex no nothing. It hit me so hard I didn't know what to say, I told him I needed to go to the bathroom and sat there for five mins to take it in. I got out and we talked about it, I confessed that I really liked him and just needed time to come to terms with my feelings and had he been patient with me it would've been wonderful. He told me that I can now go meet other guys and maybe he'll meet other people too. I told him I really liked him so much and the thought of him with another person really hurts me. He told me I should've said this sooner, and I know I should have but I didn't know, I'm still learning more and more about my feelings and all I needed is time. We finished and wanted to go home, he tried to hug I couldn't I told him please no need, cause I really was sad and in the verge of crying. I went home sad.
I arrived home then I receive a text from him saying " I had a blast, whenever you feel like you can see me again just tell me cuz I'd really love that, I really enjoy my time with you. Also as I said you never know what will happen maybe it's for the best maybe it'll turn into a better thing in the future"
part 2
We sent few snaps yesterday but no text. I want to accept that it's no longer gonna work out but I feel like this strange pain in my chest and I don't know how to deal. I want to believe that he still wants this too but I don't know. I feel like there's still more I want to tell him, I want to explain more about myself but I can't bring myself to meet him again, I feel like I'm throwing my pride out of the window whenever I think of him or think of texting him. I don't know if I can have him as friends now, I got too attached and it's fucking dumb of me to get like that but oh well. I want to meet him and tell him I can't have him as friends and want to just stop talking forever but also the thought of him not in my life anymore sucks SO bad. Should I ask to meet him again tonight and explain more about how I feel? should I just be quiet and deal with it on my own?
>>18558439
Sounds like yall falling for each other. Keep it up!
>this big ass tl;dr rant
get a diary stacy, a thread died for this
>>18558439
This is why I don't like the fwb shit
Anyway it seems he is still butthurt you told him the truth when he declared and wants you to grovel a bit now. Stop fucking him and stop being his "friend" unless he wants to be in a relationship. A committed monogamous relationship.