Why would someone choose me as their partner?

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This is not a thread looking for pitty, i'm curious about how relationships work and couldn't express myself in the title.

I had two girlfriends (I had to broke up with the first after 1 year because i moved away from this city... Then had to break up with the second after two years because i came back lol, long distance relationships sucks)

I sincerely don't know why they liked me. I'm an average person with average beauty, average hobbies etc. Sounds pretty boring, right? Everyone else can do what i can, sometimes better. They constantly called me cute. There's lots of cuter people out here. They told me i'm really good with words and knew what to say to make them happy didn't matter how bad their day was. But there's lots of more romantic people out there. I can play the usual guitar and drums for myself, and i'm not even good, i don't know any romantic songs to play in a cold rainy night. Still they always asked me to play some songs i doubt they liked.

Why not find someone better?

>I may sound retarded and indifferent, but i sincerely don't understand. I really loved them but didn't understand why they liked me. What motivates people to stay with someone and stop looking for something better?

And no, i didn't look for something better because i liked them. That's good for me but i don't understand why someone else would feel like this. It's irrational.