What do you consider fixable problems in a relationship? And

>what do you consider unacceptable
When she had sex with my best friend when I was on a a school trip. That was incredibly painful.

Unaccetable is cheating and abuse.

Anything beyond that I think can be mended if both partners put in the effort.

>>18555595
fixable problems
>her breath smells bad
>she's been feeling depressed or anxious
>she has problems finding a job
>she's been down because she mourns a loss of a close friend/family member
>one or two bad habbits/addictions
>she has an health problem or two
>she has a phobia of something
>firstborn was a daughter, not a son
>not into cooking

definite deal breaker
>she makes major decisions without consulting you
>she goes out at night without mentioning you with whom or where
>she obsessively reads your social media or texts
>major drug addiction, like heroin or something
>has a "really close guy friend"
>throws temper tantrums in public
>does the "anon I am sorry I got drunk and slept with a guy at a party" route when she was supposed to be out with her girl friends
>combination of holding many grudges, gossiping other people a lot and being petty constantly
>posts naked pictures of herself on the internet
>has a criminal record beyond a parking ticket/DUI

>>18555595
>Lack of communication

That could be fixed with communication.

>Lack of interest

That could be fixed with being more involved in activities.