One of my best mates has cheated on his gf in the past. They started living together this year after a few yrs dating and in that year I can name two occasions where he has physically cheated (once just an 'attempted' kiss at a party.. once he told me he 'may' have had sex with a woman on a stag do.. he said couldn't remember because he was so drunk.. ...)
I have a pretty big issue with unfaithfulness as my parents split after one of them cheated.
I obviously want to keep my friend but i think the way he acts towards, and talks about, his gf is pretty bad desu.. How do i reconcile these two sides of my friend?
You should not concern yourself with another persons relationship.
Just bite the bullet on this one and keep it to yourself.
yeah that was the advice someone else gave me... :( I think it is probably the best thing to do and I get it but it's so hard to when this guy basically constantly brings it up.
Analogously.. imagine your best mate constantly expressing their opinion about a really controversial topic of conversation that you felt strongly about... so irritating!
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You can try to talk to him about it but there is no telling how he will react.
I recommend just making comments to the stuff he says like "hey that's not cool man" or something along those lines.