I recently started talking to this girl on Kik who goes to my school. Shes been sending me a few non-lewd pics very recently but usually only responds (slowly) in a short time window (like 1 or 2 hours). Also everytime I suggest meeting up she sort of seems to ignore it the same way.
>I suggest a meet up (admittedly i can be a bit jokey/light about it)
>No response for the rest of the night
>The next night comes
>"Hey"
Should I keep trying or just lay off meeting up and try to build rapport (or just quit)? Am I just not smooth enough (or not "alpha" enough)? I'm pretty confused
>>18553924
Just drop her she sounds like an attention whore. I don't think it's your game, just a bad fish.
>>18553924
I know girls like that. They are usually manipulative and use you as a back-up plan. Probably she is already going out with a guy and is only using you so that if that relationship should backfire, she can show to her bf that she can quickly into next one and has nothing to lose.
I suggest you get with a girl who is less into mindgames, OP.
>>18553933
Bummer. Should I keep her around? Could there not be some kind of casual relationship here?
>>18553946
How can this be casual? You are just texting her. For a casual relationship, there must be something solid in common with you two. For example, I have a long-time casual friendship with a girl who has a bf, but what connects us is that we are both into arts.
>>18553971
Idk I meant a casual sex-based relationship, although I realize that this might not go anywhere.
Should I not be texting her when I'm bored (after she initiates)?
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