Getting past that feeling

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why would she dump you because of an outside event? wouldnt it be simpler to just break off contact for awhile until she has shit sorted?

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She didn't leave because of some external event. A stressful period in one's life usually won't usually cause someone to abandon a relationship, typically people want support from those close to them. However what a stressful time can do is open people up to rash decisions, and if the stress was coupled perhaps by dudes hitting on her she might have been more like to play the field, but that's all internal. The stress, if it is related, opened her up to the idea of going back to the meat market.

I don't know exactly how to help you OP, but I am in a similar phase myself, along with many others around here. The girl cuddling you up, weakly demanding to stay with her, getting abandoned by someone you knew you could spend a life with, knowing they are getting railed at least once a week by all kinds of guys. Feeling like an old Camry traded in for a mustang. I know these feels.

But the feels get numb as time goes on. What I can say is you should introduce some positive changes in your life, so instead of having "your life minus the person you love" it's "a new life where I'll be alone for a while". I've been working out for a half a year and that's pretty nice I guess. It's hard to feel sorry for yourself after two miles on the treadmill. Going back to school to finish my degree, might be fun. Eventually you get so involved in all your new adventures, those instinctual thoughts about the person you care about become fainter and fainter, until you can laugh at yourself, remind yourself not to give a shit about some thoughtless bitch, and go back to the new life you've made for yourself.