I think my bf might be too sexual. He talks about sex all the time. It doesn't get me that he likes sex or anything I just get pricked when he changes the subject from something totally different to sexy talk. He does it all the time but I feel like I can't really get mad about it because I started it back when we first started dating. I told him that he doesn't have to hold back with me, but I'm starting to think that was a mistake. Is there a way for me to put a lid on it without making him feel ashamed of his sex drive?
You told him he doesn't have to hold back. He isn't. He brings up this subject because he likes to be sexual with you. If you dislike it, move on to someone with a lower sex drive, because his won't change just because you asked him to
>>18552656
Ehhhhhh I was hoping you wouldn't say something like that. I really like him as a guy. His sex drive is just way higher than mine. That's the only problem that needs fixing. If I can have my cake and eat it too that would be better for me.
>>18552640
You should really just talk to him about this not us.
Think about this. You said you started it so maybe he isn't even that sexual and just wants to show you that he can "keep up" and be assertive and consistent in pleasing you.
Worst case scenario he doesn't tone it down, but I'm betting he will.
>>18552674
>his sex drive is just wag higher than mine
That is a problem that few people can solve, just hang around /adv/ and you'll see it pop up every other day.
Maybe make him cum more each session, drain his balls dry so that his drive goes down enough to wait for yours, satisfy him by HJ/BJ when you're not in the mood for PiV, or let him fuck other girls. There isn't much more to be done beyond that.
>>18552714
>Implying that suddenly increasing quality of sex will make him want it less
Wew lad
>>18552720
Yes it can backfire. But if she can drain his sexual energy more, he will settle down at some point.
>>18552640
If sex is all that he can relate you towards, maybe it's because he doesn't value your individuality. You're just some sexbot to be used. Shame that you're dating a dick. Or he's been too sexually held back and can't control himself. Either case, he's got an immaturility issue.