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No one sees me as a good friend

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What am i doing wrong?

Problem is, the people i consider as my best friends all see me as just a regular friend, one of their long bunch. I realized this because i asked one of them how did they saw me and he said "well you are someone funny to hang out but i would't call you a friend" and then i asked the others randomly as the past week went.

I'm literally very comprehensive and listen to them when they have problems, i hang out with them and help them with money anytime they need, i make jokes and they laugh, we spend a lot.

I swear to god that i'm a good person to them in every aspect i can.

I feel kind of dumb and trying to not cry.
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same here man, stopped believing i'd ever have someone i can call best friend or be called a best friend by someone, idk..
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You deserve better anon. I'll be your friend.

Those people sound like assholes who don't appreciate what they have.
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>>18552291

I'm sorry to hear that bud. I really don't know what can it be.

I thought you could measure the level of friendship by things like support, time spent together, funny moments, etc... I guess not
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>>18552304

Thanks man, i really appreciate your words.

How is life treating you? Any similar situation to ours?
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I find myself withdrawing and distancing myself from my "friends" because they don't have behavior like yours. I'd love to have supportive caring and funny friends but it just never happens. You'll find friends that value you someday.
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>>18552254
You need new friends ASAP.

Don't waste any more time, effort, money or your emotional well being trying to please people who won't even give you the time of the day.
Maybe they're too selfish and self-absorbed, maybe you were too awkward or cold, maybe they're just dicks... but that doesn't really matter. There are more people out there, and if you keep behaving like the person you say you are, then you won't have much trouble finding new friends.
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