Scared of Relationships

There's no right answer for a question like this. You seem to have realized that you are the one who needs to take action and make changes, so there's a start. You're on your own in trying to figure out what those changes are. The way out of your comfort zone is paved with doubt, remorse, fear and anxiety, so it's going to be tough.

>>18551680

Dude you're just like me!

I'm 26, I've had sex once when I was 20 (it was awful), and I became emotional with a girl a few years ago who burned me. So now I can only see girls, sex, and dating in a very negative light. So more or less, im scared.

I workout too and have myself on a very good life track. Girls think my life is very interesting and i do get attention from QTs. But all I do is friendzone them.

>>18551739
Same, got burned by a girl who lead me on in h/s and the experience gave me the fears big time. When I think about who I am I wouldn't want to inflict myself on anyone - all I do is lift, read and fantasize about dying. I know they'd hate the real me so it's hard to deal with when they show interest.

>>18551802

I feel the same. I don't think a relationship would last. Im completely independent. So, I just can't seeing having a girl in my life working out.