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Hey /adv/

So I went over to a hangout just the other day, and I can't help but feel like I had and undertone of an asshole. Not in terms of actions, but more in terms of my word usage and tone of voice. I mean usually I try my best to not go crazy with the sarcasm/jokes and whatnot normally. But I just feel that I may not have done a good job thinking about what I would say before I said it. I didn't say anything horrible or accuse anyone, but I just think that my actions were a little off putting.

Now my question is, would it be weird if I straight up asked one friend that was there if I was being mean? Or should I just do better the next time we chill?
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Who cares, you'll never be alpha.
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Except I would rather like to keep my friends. And as such I worry about things like this as a means of preventing perceptions that I may not be aware of that can affect the friendship.
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>>18551521

I sort of know what you mean, I'm the "witty" guy of my groups usually so I'm always burning people and sometimes realise I'm laying it on a bit too thick. Sometimes it's satisfying setting the other person up for a good comeback and letting them have the last word too, it's like hard mode banter: escort mission

It would be kind of weird to ask that, but it depends on whether you have a friend who was there that you're really close with and share a lot of stuff with. Like some of my friends we're great friends and hang out a lot but don't necessarily overshare with each other, while some I only see once or twice a month but we'll get drunk and share stories about our exes and stuff like that.

If you're feeling like you were too much of an asshole, just keep toning it back like you are already and try not to let it happen again. Start bringing chips and dips and stuff to hangouts unprompted
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