Why do humans overrate body language so much? I had a hard time with job interviews and with my own business attempt, and started making a decent income until I started with online freelancing. Despite many attempts to improve it I can't seem to make progress with nonverbal communication.
It has also been a major issue with dating and relationships. I feel I give off some negative "vibe" that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. People I just met tend to ask me if I'm angry or bored... And those who have known me for longer say I seemed arrogant or aloof at first and only then did they realize I'm just introverted.
I'm an engineer, MBA and according to comments I've heard also good looking although I honestly don't feel so.
BURP