First time

No, don't fap. Not being able to get it up is far worse a risk than coming early.

>>18551291
This
If you have to, fap once and make it quick so it's not a big nut or anything.

>>18551291
Just do all your fapping up to 30 minutes in advance

Getting hard isn't really a problem desu

DO NOT FAP. You don't need to last long. You're going to be shit at sex anyway. If you can't get hard it'll be the most embarassing moment of your life. Trust me, I've done it. Just get your foreplay on and be open to asking questions about what feels right and what doesn't.

>>18551289

Nah don't fap, same as what everyone else said. Maybe fap the night before or fap early in the morning so you at least aren't a loaded gun, but it's better to be a loaded gun and shoot off 60 seconds after you penetrate her (she'll probably be flattered and tease you a bit) rather than fuck her roughly for 45 minutes before admitting you're not gonna cum tonight.

Make sure you let her know how close you are so she doesn't accidentally make you cum too early, it's easy enough to tell her in a sexy way ("Slow down, if you keep doing that I'll..." etc)

Enjoy your awkward sex OP. Also if she has a cum fetish (>50% likely) she'll appreciate the big load too.

>>18551449
Getting hard can be very difficult for a virgin due to nerves.

>>18551489
>rather than fuck her roughly for 45 minutes before admitting you're not gonna cum tonigh
I don't know why I laughed

If something I learned about my first time is that we are designed to do that shit. Just do what you feel like it. No stupid porn moves, no hentai lines, just do what it feels in the moment.

And don't fap before, cumming early is better than not doing it at all
t. it happened