everyone in town thinks im gay, closeted or bi. im older than

>>18550589
I think the first step here is to figure out which mannerisms you have which are interpreted as gay and correct them. Stop acting like a homo and people will have less reason to suspect that you are. And, of course you should correct people if they speak falsehoods about you in your presence.

>>18550589
It sounds like people around you are closeted as hell. Where the fuck do you live at, SLC? Deep south?

>>18550607
midwest
lots of shit here that contributes to what you said:
the friend who asked me if i was bi curious in front of everyone and pushed it has had a history of being friends with a legit gay guy, like they spent a great deal of time together. he has also kissed a dude. he gets no flack or anything about it either. This guy has placed his hands on my lap when we were alone drunk and gave me a crazy eyed look. says my other friend is gay who was raped as a kid.

This "friend" who was raped as a kid apparently some girls he dates suggested that he's gay and his sister thinks so. I certainly caught him eying my body when i went to his pool party. He still dates girls and other shit.

another "friend" used to draw erections and shit, has subliminal gay shit in his work but dates girls and because he is a pretty boy, he gets attention. He is also two faced as fuck and overheard him explain to his other friends that im closeted suggesting they don't believe him.

all these dudes i hung out with because i wouldnt have anywhere else to go all are two faced and shit on me, exclude me from real parties and other shit.

>>18550606
its probably my mannerisms because i can be a spaz and cant keep my shit together at times. alcohol gets me excited and happy and energetic. i cant help it man. most of the time i dont peacock, talk shit, or act "hard". ive been through some humiliating shit to where im humbled, timid and quiet.

>>18550655
No joke here, these guys sound to have some preoccupations with homosexuality, so it only makes sense when they project it at you.

>>18550692
id hate to be one of those people where everyone thinks or knows that im gay but me. i dont harbor romantic feelings or sexual feelings for men. its not impossible to fuck a dude, like anyone can fuck a horse, but i dont prefer it at all.

its likely theyre preoccupied with calling me gay and telling everyone based on being the odd man out, pecking order, ect. they say it with malice and love to talk shit about people to other people.

i had asked them about it and why they do it and they just said im crazy and know one thinks so. Next time i hear it in my presence im gonna correct it.