22 year old virgin in first dating/relationship. How the fuck

That's natural, it'll get better over time

>>18549167
Sigh ok then, do women have a similar issue or is male testosterone it's own kind of terrible?

>>18549200
from what my gf told me, it's not as bad but happens as well, might just be her though

I was a khv until 26 when I got my first gf who was also a khv. For the first 7 months I had to double up on underwear to prevent the precum spots from showing. Just tuck your dick into the waistband of your underwear and wear an undershirt to help catch the precum. If you're legit blowing a load without any stimulation, rub one out before the date. Spend less time thinking about your dick when you notice the boner and aim it upwards by "tucking in" your undershirt so it's more a mound and less a point. Like everyone says online it'll stop being a problem eventually.

I've been with my gf for almost 2 years and I still get a semi-boner every time we're close, but compared to nearly blowing a load when we just held hands, this is nothing.

tl;dr- it gets better, give it time

>>18549262
>If you're legit blowing a load without any stimulation, rub one out before the date.
Nah not that bad. It's crazy to me that people are like that.

Thanks man, I feel a lot better about it now.