Muslim girl confession

>>18548793

So what advice are you seeking...and what country do you live in?

>>18548795
You realise that this is bait right?

>>18548793
Astaghfirullah. Read more Quran so you forget such sinful thoughts.

>>18548795
Should I get married young just for that? I live in the US currently.
>>18548800
Everything is bait to fggts like you
>>18548803
I tried forgetting about it I'm more religious now but it keeps getting worse. I only hinted to my parents that I want to get married young but I'm not sure if I should talk to my mom about it, it's probably a bad idea since my parents are too conservative.

>>18548803
That doesn't help that much anon, not everyone has the willpower and determination to just forget thoughts. No idea why people keep saying that.
>>18548793
Idk the stats but literally everyone I know who has gotten into an arranged marriage hasn't been happy, so maybe try putting it off and filling your mind with something else, that's how everyone does it, be it school or working out or vidya.

>>18548816
Whatever you do, DON'T get married just for sex. It will ruin a good chunk of your life.

If you can't find a BF to fuck you..
Get on tinder or OK cupid and make a basic profile saying you want casual sex. Choose the best guy suitable for you. Explain you are a virgin. Try to make sure he is understanding and compassionate so you don't have horrible memories of your first time.

Or
Find someone to have phone/internet sex with.
The dual interaction can still offer a connection even though it's not physical.

DO NOT GET MARRIED!

>>18548873
It's on my mind even when I try to distract myself. I'm even starting to have really weird dreams abou incest with my brother (it's disgusting I know) but most of my dreams are nightmares anyway.
>>18548887
I'm not a degenerate hoe. I want to wait till marriage.

>>18548793
Op, what I'd suggest is to talk to your mother. However conservative she may be, she probably wouldn't deny giving advice to her daughter if it's about such a serious thing in a woman's life. Start off mellow, talk about how they met, about their relationship, etc. etc.Then bring up the topic of your future marriage, how you want to experience some of the sexual aspects of a relationship and other things.

Spoiler alert: sex is overrated. Don't ruin your life because of it. I know that you want to try some stuff, but just be patient. Trust me, it's better to lose your virginity with someone you trust and love than someone you barely know.

Good luck, try to find and follow the righteous path for YOU.

>>18548816
Maybe you shouldn't make shit sound like bait. Just because you say it's not bait doesn't mean it isn't

>>18548793
Why cant you just masturbate? Muslim here too. Astaghfirullah. Fear Allah sister. Not even kidding or being ironic here.

If you do end up getting a bf it's not like he is going to give you unlimited orgasms with his dick. There is a lot of uncertainty with men.

>>18548911
>I'm not a degenerate hoe. I want to wait till marriage.
Hahaha! How naive are you?
Chances are you will be much worse off getting married for sex, as opposed to having casual sex with someone. At least you'll be able to move on easily.
Or would you prefer the pain of going through Islamic divorce and all the bitterness and fighting? Not to mention being shamed as used goods by the rest of the Muslim community.

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>>18548793
How old are you? What state you live in?

>>18548913
I will try my best to stop thinking about it. I honestly can't talk to my mom about it.
>>18548938
I stopped masturbating because it's haram it decreased my sexual desires a bit but they are still there. It's not about getting a bf it's also about having that emotional connection with someone my fantasies involve me "getting pleasure" like half the time.
>>18548939
You realize it's better to be divorced than have a first marriage as a non virgin. No good Muslim guy wants a girl who had prematrial sex.

>>18548982
You can control yourself after you stopped?
Literally all muslim women just masturbate discreetly without anyone knowing becuase of the stigma we have in our community against non virgin women. Whatever you do don't have casual sex with anyone. That is the recommendation you'll get on this board.
Just get a qt boi with a good future from your university's MSA and you are all set for marriage.

>>18548793
Do what every other decent Muslim girl would do, dudette. Like the other anon said above, sex is overrated. If you can't hold it then just masturbate, it's better than having sex before marriage, especially for a Muslim girl such as yourself. Masturbate till you make it

Buy a sex toy. I recommend a vibe because it stimulates both the clit and gspot and no one will know what it is if they find it in your room.

>>18548965
Late teens and on the east coast
>>18548989
It's hard but yeah I can control myself from it especially that I quit watching porn. It's not like I broke my hymen a girl doesn't have to like break it to get pleasure or even go in there.
There was an incident with a boy where my parents found out about a guy I talked to for two years (I sent him naked pics/vids and he sent them to my brother ( I met him online and we never met in person he got angry when I "broke it off"). So my parents now want me to marry my cousin after being really angry about betraying their trust and stuff. He isn't bad looking or anything but the thought of him being my cousin kinda grosses me out. I don't know if I should go for it.

>>18548982
I say ditch your stupid closed minded religion, sex is awsome and getting your pussy licked is sooooo good.Don't marry young sis

>>18549027
Cont.

My parents keep saying I won't find a guy with a good family and a good history as in they are kinda almost forcing him (my cousin) on me and I'm really reluctant about it.

>>18549038
go for it if you want mentally handicapped children

Christian here, but I am waiting as well.
I guess what's important for me is the motivation why I am not having sex yet, and for me that is because I feel that my sexuality is meant for only one person, and giving it to someone other than just doesn't feel right to me.
Quitting porn was a good idea, but I guess the motivation I have doesn't work as good if you can't choose your own partner and are forced to marry someone you might not even want.
On the other hand, you are in the US and honestly, screw your parents if they try to force you to do it, the worst that could happen is they don't want to see you anymore but it doesn't sound like they care too much about you anyway tbqh

>>18548793
Get a vibrator.

>>18548911
Sex before marriage isn't degenerate. It's prudent to gain experience before you undertake anything important, and what could be more important than marriage? You need to experience sex so that you know what will please you and your husband in bed. Think of sex before marriage as training for the real thing.

>>18548982
Maybe don't marry a muslim guy then.

>>18549039
Mudslimes do it all the time m8, it's why a lot of them are screwed up.

>>18549084
"Children of non-related couples have a 2-3% risk of birth defects, as opposed to first cousins having a 4-6% risk."

>>18549027
Have a discreet non-Muslim (white) boy give you oral sex. His tongue will give you ecstasy of which you have only dreamed so far, and it doesn't break the hymen but concentrates on the clitoris. White guys are usually happy getting a handjob in return, and they're very understanding if you explain that your cultural differences prevent you from having penetration. Some are just glad to give you an orgasm. Plus, they can keep a secret. Be discreet yourself and you can have all the fun you want.

>>18549089
It's a problem that compounds over time. Cousins that marry one in a population where that never happens won't have much risk of complications, but if a population is regularly breeding with relatives then detrimental recessive genes that usually don't appear because they are rare and recessive will start popping up. They will also start developing physically weaker bodies because there is a lack of diversity in their immune system.

Don't know enought about muslim culture to know if they do this, but inbreeding is definitely a problem in cultures that make a regular practice of it.

>>18548982
>You realize it's better to be divorced than have a first marriage as a non virgin. No good Muslim guy wants a girl who had prematrial sex.

this raises some questions:

do you want to only date/marry in your religion?
does your faith take precedence over you wanting sex?


honest advice would be to have sex before marriage because if you marry a guy and they suck ass in bed then the relationship will go sour very fast.

>>18549140
>do you want to only date/marry in your religion?
Yes
>does your faith take precedence over you wanting sex?
Yes

this is why i dont care for religion. live for yourself. LIVE FUCKING FREE.

dammit.

blow yourself up

>>18549027
You know the hymen can tear from anything, even stretching or riding a horse? It also might never tear. Tearing happens when something is put in to fast and dry. Some people have hymens that just have wide enough openings to accomodate a dick without tearing and bleeding. I wouldn't think too much about it.

>>18548982
>No good Muslim guy wants a girl who had premarital sex
Since there aren't any good Muslim guys you should be fine

>>18549027
>angry about betraying their trust and stuff
Nigga what? You didn't betray anyone's trust, if you are an adult, you can decide what to do with your own body. it was, however, a HUGE betrayal of trust on the part of your "special" guy friend to spitefully leak nudies after you called it off, and it was fucked up of ur brother to snitch.

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>>18549178
Well I know that mine is still there I can see it
>>18549206
There isn't much I can do about what happened. I think I will probably agree to my cousin he isn't bad looking and I know there aren't any random recessive diseases in my family since I got tested. Hopefully it will work out if not I will probably just get a divorce since it's not exactly seen as terrible for a woman to get a divorce in my family (my aunt and a few cousins are divorced)
>>18549176
Best answer, here is your badge

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>>18549027
Eyyy I live on the east coast. You 17?
Don't marry your cousin that's gross

>>18548793
>I'm super sexually frustrated (I'm a virgin, never done anything physical).
start masturbating?!

>>18548793
Want to get married?

>>18548911
>I'm not a degenerate hoe. I want to wait till marriage.
ahahahahaha enjoy your terrible sex life/marriage when you find out you like different stuff in bed XD

When your family isn't around I recommend masturbation. It relieves the stress and prevents you from doing something stupid and regrettable.

>>18549247
Don't marry your cousin retard. That's incest

>>18549266 #
I'm 19 and there isn't much I can do about it . I mean the positive of it is that he will not hurt me at least I know that. Worst case scenario I become a divorcé which isn't terrible.
>>18549278 #
No
>>18549281 #
Yeah I will probably start doing it without porn just to relieve stress.
>>18549304 #
I don't have many options especially after my "ex" betrayed me. My parents wouldn't let me marry a guy that they don't know the family of/how he is like and dating is haram. My options are limited at least if I don't like him and I can get a divorce.

>>18549367
You don't need your parents to "let" you marry someone.
See, this is why pepople think youmuzzies are backwards

>>18549367
>>18549367
OP don't marry someone who you describe as "not bad looking". You'll barely enjoy sex with someone your not as attracted to. Marry a handsome qt boi and you will be set for life. I say this as a muslim sister. Trust me. You don't want to marry a regular looking guy (unless you are regularly looking yourself) just because he has a stable job, takes the deen seriously and a good degree. I hate how marriages work in our community.

>>18549449
The type of guys I'm attracted/really into I will probably never be able to get married to. I'm above average looking but I have really unrealistic stands. He is better looking than most guys I know though.

>>18548982
>I stopped masturbating because it's haram
>I tried forgetting about it I'm more religious now but it keeps getting worse
Islam really is the religion of choice to keep a bitch in her place. You do know it's a scam right? The quran has verses that override other verses (it it's the word of god why does it contradict itself?, the apologist always go for the "newer verses override older verses" argument but that would mean some of the written "words of god" would have lost all significance). The quran also grants muhammed a lot of special rights, like the right to have more wifes than is allowed otherwise and so forth. Also when muhammed was pestered by guests a verse was "sent down" by god that basically says stop bothering the prophet of god in his home. Quite convenient ain't it?

>>18549378
Islam means submission and that is it's main purpose. It is a set of guidelines to set up society in the way that muhammed liked it. Anyhow islam is a hard society and the west is a soft society and soft societies get taken over by hard ones. So look where liberating women got the west, sharia courts and people being controlled by the religion to the point where they will commit incest since family "honour" calls for it. Islam itself is very much on par with christianity (modern christianity just ignores everything they don't like, what's the point if you are not going to follow it all the way?, I know it's about community "healthy morals" and shit but still it's a bit redundant to have christianity as any sort of banner at that point) but the muslim community is pure cancer.

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>>18549542
>>18549594

>>18549531
>Unrealistic standards
What do you mean? The muslim guys were I come from are really good looking.

>>18549531
>I'm above average looking
shame no one will know until you'Re married, so it doesn't matter anyway

>>18549637
I have not claimed that there is 100% nothing greater out there, humans being biological machines that came to existance through mere coincidence is a bit hard to believe. But islam/christianity/judaism are obvious non-sense. Does the sun set into a muddy pool? Does the sun have a place where it goes to rest at the end of the day? You can't actually believe that the quran is the word of god do you?

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>>18549656
I'm attracted to white preppy looking dudes. Most aren't Muslim and most wouldn't go for me. >>18549663
I wear a hijab not a niqab so people know how I look like.
>>18549668
You're the type of fggt to read a hate article about Islam or watch a YouTube video and act like you're knowledgeable.

>but islam/christianity/judaism are obvious non-sense
Kek what do you believe in then? Buddha?

>>18549740
You want to bang Chad but marry a Muslim. How does this even work?

>>18549740
>You're the type of fggt to read a hate article about Islam or watch a YouTube video and act like you're knowledgeable.

Not that guy but to be fair he does have a point. The classical scholars did think that the sun actually sets into a muddy spring. The point of contention was whether the Prophet SAWS said muddy or warm. Heck, even ibn abbas RA thought it did and they have authentic narrations running back to him that clearly say what he actually thought about the sun's course. It got me all confused and stuff a long time ago but I barely care anymore.

>>18549760
That guy I used to talk to was a chad but muslim (convert). After that I seen that I'm better off not race mixing again even if it's my preference.

>>18549763
There is nothing scientific or unscientific about the verse. The verse is simply describing what he saw (from his own perspective). He travelled to a westward place which is maghribal-shams, until he reached a coastal area and could not go further. The word "ayn" literally means any body of water.

>>18549786
I know that feel sis. I was born in Australia so I grew up around tall, muscular white guys. I don't find guys if my ethnicity attractive since they're skinny refugees for the most part. I would probably marry within my ethnicity but put it off for as long as possible because it's unlikely I'll be attracted to the guy I marry.

>>18549796
You do realize the (from his own perspective) was added later right? It is the only way to make the verse not sound unscientific. I mean if you actually read Tabari's tafseer he quotes 10+ different narrations saying the same. Not 1, 10 of them. Also, I don't know wtf I am doing arguing about Islam on 4chan. Tbh I still am a Muslim but that particular verse took me for a ride a long time ago. Idc.

>>18549808
>skinny refugees
Kek, yeah I feel you
>>18549810
I'm Shia I don't take Sunni interpretations

MUSLIMS

GET

OOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

>one chance at life
>life it oppressed as a Muslim woman
>die and you're gone forever

Loling a bit but sad

You're obviously in the UK so I'll come and fuck your brains out for free gurl

>>18549740
>You're the type of fggt to read a hate article about Islam or watch a YouTube video and act like you're knowledgeable.

What a shitty strawman argument

Get out my country already you fucking sand nigger

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>>18549835

>>18549104
Yeah, Muslims regularly do these sorts of practices. I've also heard that they tend to become overly angry and defensive over certain topics, which is apparently trait common in those with low IQ. I would assume this IQ deficiency comes from both the religion itself and the current state of genetics for Muslims, which is kind of sad, but expected when inbreeding is considered normalcy. We've seen this in some western civilizations long ago, albeit still happens in the present, it's not at the same rate as it once was. There is a small town in my province with which there were very few people and inbreeding was common, I believe there is a disease that can only be found in these isolated areas.

Anyways, by continuously inbreeding for generations you will end up with disease, mental and/or physical abnormalities/deficiencies and immune disorders.

I would highly advise against having children between yourself and another family member, for the sake of the child.

>>18549808 here

>>18549826
I just think of marriage like work. As long as it gives you most of what you need from it, then you just learn to be content with it. When we were kids we were all told we should aspire to be astronauts or prime minister or rockstars not something ordinary. Turns out most of us are happy being boring tradies or office workers, etc, don't be afraid of being married to a guy you don't feel sexy feelings for if he's a good provider and father.

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>>18549859
Fggt is triggered

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>>18549849

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>>18548793
maybe i should convert to islam so i can date you

>tfw no gf

>>18549908
Richard spencer is my imaginary husband. I won't race mix again though only in my imagination.

>>18550002
but people of all races are in islam. if i covert for you what is the problem? i'm [spoiler] latino

>>18550020
Reported for Haram pic

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>>18550026
but you still didnet answer my question

>>18549740
> I'm attracted to white preppy looking dudes. Most aren't Muslim and most wouldn't go for me.
You'd be surprised what we'd go for. We'd probably be surprised too, if we stopped chasing pussy long enough to think about it.
I dated a Persian girl once. She was short and thin with big tits, dark eyes, and a nice smile. I felt an uncontrollable urge to fuck her and didn't really give a shit what god's name she called our while I was dicking her.

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>>18550042
Not attracted to latinos doe

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>>18550051
fug
what ever happen to its the inside that counts? i would never throw acid in your face or beat you

>>18548793
Madzhab? You should bring up the fact that you want to settle down with a man soon.

The Holy Quran says,
“And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.” (Surah an-Nur, 24:32)

The above ayat begins with the words Wa Ankehoo (And marry…). The imperative form of the word ‘nikah’ implies that either it is obligatory or highly recommended. According to scholars, though marriage is a highly recommended act, it becomes obligatory when there is a chance of falling into sin.

The Prophet (SAW) says, “No house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through marriage.”
On another occasion the Prophet (SAW) said,
“The best people of my nation are those who get married and have chosen their wives, and the worst people of my nation are those who have kept away from marriage and are passing their lives as bachelors.”

Just bring this up to your parents
>According to scholars, though marriage is a highly recommended act, it becomes obligatory when there is a chance of falling into sin.

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>>18550050
Reported for autism. Die niggerfggt.
>>18550065

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>>18550088
HAVE AT YOU!

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>>18550097

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>>18550116
die scum

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>>18550126
Dirty Sanchez niggerfggt

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>>18550152
youre such a dick

>>18549872
>wise anon
>>18550087
You're right, I mean my parents want me to marry my cousin and I probably will

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>>18550195
>I mean my parents want me to marry my cousin and I probably will

NO!, PLEASE! just give me a chance. i'll show you the world, shower you in pearls

>>18550202
I don't want your pearls, carlos

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>>18550209
i'm not carlos. latino is a nationality not a race

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lol this thread

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>>18550215
get yourself a qt, niqabi maria
>>18550222
best thread on adv basically

>>18550215
Latino is not a nationality unless you're from Lazio and speak Latin when raping your Sabine wife and planning on invading those pesky Volscians again.

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>>18550209
fucking racsit bitch. i hope you family kills you. you dont know what you missed out on. when you are not happy in your marriage you will remember me. when your husband beats you and all the crap

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>>18550284
i'm just joking OP. /b/ is slow

>>18549740
>attracted to white preppy looking dudes
>sexually frustrated
>late teens, female, Muslim, wears hijab

If it weren't for you being on the East coast, I could swear I know exactly who you are. I had a friend high school who was pretty damn near similar to you, no idea how she got over the frustration. But good luck, I think it's admirable you're keeping to your faith. Honestly, your best bet is to just to wait for a nice Muslim guy, or find a white guy who will convert. Honestly, what else can you do?

>>18549808
I'm slowly getting convinced that like half of Muslim female teenagers fit this profile. But stereotypes are rude and I'm working off a sample of one actual person and two shitposters on 4chan, so there's that.

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>>18550776
A boring, physically unfit Muslim guy in an Islamic country is attractive in his culture because being a good provider for a stay at home mother is considered good enough in that society. In the West women can earn their own money so they don't care if a man is a provider so women want men based on how sexy or cool they are. The problem is when refugee guys try to marry Muslim women who were born in the West based on what would make them attractive back home. The women raised in western countries are conditioned to find Chad attractive.

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>>18550026
>>18550042
>>18550051
>>18550065
>>18550088
>>18550097
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>>18550193
Stop fighting you two!

>>18548793
This is a random question but what do your parents think about you being on 4chan lol? Or do they know?

>>18550776
You will have a hard time finding a white guy willing to convert, even for love. We like things such as:

>beer
>bacon
>casual sex
>our unmutilated penis

Too much to give them up.

>>18550284
Fggt
>>18550877
Fk off mom
>>18550882
my parents don't know what 4chan is but they know kinda about pol I tried explaining it to them a few times (probably still don't understand)

lol are you the iraqi muslim girl from /int/?

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>>18551990
Is that you mom? I got a temp ban on pol and int so I have to resort to /b/ and /bant/ for shitposting. Even on bant I got one of my threads removed a few days back for like no reason (didn't violate any rules). Nishimura probably don't like muzzies.

>>18552084
yea i saw one of your threads on /bant/ or /int/ cant remember which one exactly.

and im not ur mom

and you should stop making bait threads for attention

and you definitely should marry me. we'll make plenty of /mena/ kids ;)

>>18552554
Its not bait u fggt. I get banned for muzlamic replies/threads (and being a muzlamic qt since sometimes I don't even post about Islam and I get banned).
Are you one of the /mena/ fags on discord that tried to doxx me?

I hope you get beheaded

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>>18552675
Die, kike

>>18549367
>Yeah I will probably start doing it without porn just to relieve stress.

This is a good idea. As a long time porn watcher I recommend staying away from it.

>>18552673
Lol i don't use discord. Anyways it's funny how you try to act like you are so pure compared to western girls when you just made another thread about a guy leaking your nudes. You're literally just another entitled whore at this point doesn't matter if u had sex or not.

>>18553118
I already explained the situation in this thread, retard. You're probably just butthurt that >>18549808 and I prefer white men looks wise. I'm gonna stop responding to you and other fggts like you since you have nothing useful to say.

>>18548793
Opt out of the religion and hide from the family when they try to execute you for no humane reason.

>>18553145
>Implying I'm insecure brown Middle eastern like you

Yea no I'm light skinned Lebanese. Some girls at my workplace were even surprised and said that I look Greek. Anyways I literally don't care that you prefer white guys but I find it funny that you think that you're entitled to a "good strong faithful husband" just because of your religion when you are literally no different than western girls. Want an advice? Go fuck as many dicks as possible so that you repulse any good guys that you manage to make fall for you because if it wasn't for your religion, you'd be sucking dick at this very moment you whore. You're not an honest women and you being a virgin doesn't make you a good one either.

>>18553199
Arab bro here too. Let's be honest dude, white men are way better looking than us arabs. We have this whole obsession with a man's money in our community that men focus mainly on getting money while forgetting the physical aspects of attraction. My sister is a marital counsellor and she has many many stories of women not being attracted to their husbands at all. When asked why did they marry them : He had a stable job and a good education, he prays 5 times, he looked like the one to fulfill my rights etc.

>>18553216
We Lebanese are more Mediterranean than Arab (well at least some of us, i know i am) so this issue isn't a problem for us. Plus like i said I'm light skinned and that's a very attractive feature in that region so being white or not doesn't matter for me.

>light skinned Lebanese
>looks Greek
I been told I look Greek too and being light skinned (I'm light skinned too) doesn't make you white/not brown. Every Arab is brown.
You call me a whore when arabs/muslim men in Europe go around raping white women. Even in the US they have the most degenerate past and sleep with tons of non muslim women. And I'm a whore for making one mistake as an insecure teen? Don't let out all your insecurities out in this thread, Leb-anon.

>>18553234
Yeah, the obsession with light skin is really concerning though. Lol. I'm a saudi and this is a huge problem though. Also skin isn't the only factor in attraction though. Back home all of my friends and family were either scrawny or too fast. Some of them were the right weight but their body wasn't toned. I came to Los Angeles and my mind was blown by all the good looking guys (and girls).

Not sure what you're asking here
>I want to have sex
>But I don't want to have sex I want to wait
Get married then? Why are your parents going to get mad at you for wanting to get married when it is literally half of your deen?

>still responding to bait/shitposting threads

>>18553296
Well I feel like I might be making a mistake by rushing to get married. But the successful marriages I seen are people married when they are late 20s early 30s but I don't wanna commit fornication. Also are there ways to lower sexual drive?
>>18553302
Quit being annoying. You posting that is bumping the thread, sperg.

>>18553323
>Are there ways to reduce drive
Holy shit woman, just masturbate

>>18553323
You can masturbate if you fear you are falling into zina according to Imam Ahmed. I don't know which Madhab you follow but if you are a hanbali then knowing this might make you feel less guilty after diddling yourself. Don't watch porn like a degenerate though

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>>18553323
Might seem like rushing, might not seem like rushing. Who knows, at first it might seem like urgency to you, but if you do end up finding a muslim guy that you like it won't quite feel like it being rushed if that makes sense.

I don't know, end of the day it's about what you want and what you're comfortable with, if you feel like you're only going into a marriage for sex then yeah, it's kind of wrong because that marriage won't last long unless there's something else there. Not sure how big the muzzie community is wherever you are but surely chilling with them opens up options through people they know once you get to know them and maybe like someone they recommended etc.etc.

Got to hand it to you and say well done on resisting your urges.

Apart from being mega cliché and saying to pray/do dua/fasting or whatever? Not really, it's all self control. Just need to ask yourself if 10 minutes is worth ruining the self control you've shown for the past however many years.

I'll do dua for you. It's 3am so if anything didn't make sense it's because I'm tired.

>>18553326
It's not that simple for people that have a different way of life, maybe you should respect that

>>18553352
I'm a muslim too retard. I don't go around requesting nudes from random whores who haven't even met me. I try to exercise an extraordinary amount of self control. I'm so conservative that I shouldn't even be on 4chan. Kek. But yeah, most woman in her position just masturbate.

>>18553375
can they buy dildos?

>>18548793
just curious, initials?

>>18553399
No they can't. They cannot even use dildos in a marriage. Yes, the husband cannot insert anything into his wife's pussy apart from his dick,finger or pussy. No foreign objects are allowed.

A vibrator is allowed but the husband has to use it on tje wife. The wife cannot hold it herself. Husband and wife cannot masturbate themselves in front of each other. The spouse has to masturbate the other person since self stimulation is not allowed. I am literally not making this shit up.
This is of tje view of the majority even though exceptions exist (Imam Ahmed)

>>18553409
Meant dick finger or tongue lol but you get the point

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>>18549637
*tips fedora respectfully*
You've'm won this debate, sir.

>>18553245
Yea except some Lebanese aren't Arabs either though. I'm not saying we're white but we're not Arab either. I've been fascinated by this subject for a while and even took a test out of curiosity. Turns out i'm only around 15-20% Arab. Anyways that's not important. I'm aware of what Muslims do in Europe (Christian "Arabs" and most other Lebanese are coolio tho) i'm not ignorant but i don't see how that justifies what you did? Also lol
>insecure teen
>posts nudes on the internet
i'll never understand women

also i don't think you're over your insecurities if all you do is go on /pol/ and ask their opinion on muslim women and yet you have the audacity to say i'm the insecure one? get outta here

now please go follow your instincts and have sex with a tons of guys. i don't want an honest caring guy with good morals to fall for a girl like you.

>>18553352
>It's not that simple for people that have a different way of life, maybe you should respect that
>sends nudes of herself
>divorce is okay though

look, if you think divorce is okay, even though the Quran is pretty clear about it, then surely masturbating should be even okayer?
I mean, do what you want, you seem like you have set up your mind anyway and just come here to tell us...

>>18548938
What are you talking about you moron telling her not to have desires to get married the halal way which is completely allowed and telling her to masturbate as an alternative which is a major sin? Educate yourself before giving advice.

>>18549093
t. Shaitaan

>>18554136
Masturbation when zina is feared is allowed by certain scholars.

>Educate yourself
No you

>>18553437
>says he is a conservative muslim yet gives me degenerate "advice"
If you were a good muslim you wouldn't say anything this stupid. If Allah (swt) can forgive prostitutes after they repent then who are you to say I can't be forgiven. I didn't ask pol that was int you sperg. I get banned on pol for shitposting about white sharia.
>>18553708
>pretends that the different way of life reply is mine
I made a mistake you autist. I repented and at that time I was an atheist/secular so I didn't have any morals. The leb fag said that I would be a whore without religion but wouldn't we all be degenerates without religion? My mind is made up on getting married to my cousin that's what my family wants and I want their happiness. Lots of prophets/mess. before married their cousins so I should be fine.

Anyway can a mod archive this thread since I made up my mind. Thanks to everyone for their advice (not the trolls and autists)

>>18554583
Why do you care what neckbeards on 4chan think of Muslim women? Especially when they're not Muslim themselves?

>>18554583
i literally never said im muslim tho you're probably thinking of someone else. anyways good luck i guess, hope your husband doesn't find your pornos

>>18554616
That thread was about Arab women not Muslim
>>18554637
Stop being autistic and bumping this thread with autism. They aren't "pornos" and they aren't online either, retard.

>>18554807
again, why do you care what they think about arab women?

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>>18548793
>>18549266

I'm gonna say OP should hook up with anon over here. He seems legit. Has 4chan ever gotten anyone laid?

Stop being a muslim. If you live in a third world terror-state you need to have a civil war and a revolution.

>>18548793
It really depends on your attitude towards Islam. If you'd be willing to disobey it, I imagine you know that the possibilities are virtually endless.

Otherwise, you'd be best off marrying someone sexually compatible with you - such partnership is what people seek in general, and there wouldn't be any disapproval from anybody.

That said, I would say that Quran forbids transgressing in regards to "privare parts", and you could get off (pun semi-intended) on non-vaginal/clitoral masturbation, e.g. anal- or nipple-based. Depends on your attitude towards Sharia, really.

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ITT: Westerners herd Muslim girl like a horny chicken

>Get married?
>Nonono
>Fuck my cousin?
>Nonononono, we'll take you
>No Mexicans
>Okayokay, marry me?
>Mom?
>Nah girl, cmon let's do this. Wait, do I know you?

>>18554893
I met my gf on 4chan. Many others have too.

>>18554935
are you who i think you are?

>>18554958
Probably not. I'm just an anon.

>>18554546
Oh really and which scholars are those?

>>18555150
Imam Ahmed, ibn hazm etc. Go educate yourself before you act all high and mighty on a cartoon image board.

>>18554546
Let me elaborate on my question, you can't tell me which scholars because it was explicitly.stated in the Qur'an that it is forbidden and anything explictly stated in the Qur'an is not left up to interpretatipn by scholars. It's simply a factual law. Don't spread misinformation about the religion just to satisfy your convenience. People like you are why people actually believe Islam contradicts itself and think we actually believe in 72 virgins.

>>18555174
Yes brother, you know better than Imam ahmed ibn hanbal. You also know better than ibn hazm. Go fuck yourself

>>18555179
Lmaoo I don't know where you're getting your info from but there are tonnes of bullshit info out there claiming scholars say things they never said like people claiming Abu Hanifa said God exists as a body. I hope you're not getting your info from Google searches lmao.

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>>18554893
>Has 4chan ever gotten anyone laid

possible, but that doesn't mean it's not super awkward to do so e.g:
>weeks of chatting and sending pics
>finally seeing her through Skype,
>she turns out uglier than expected
>feel bad about having to bail on her
>pretend I have to go abroad for 4 years

>>18555189
Are you fucking retarded? I know what the hanbali fiqh says about masturbation. I grew up in Saudi Arabia. For the record I don't do it myself but I do know masturbation is allowed in certain cases such as hers.

>>18555197
I've read quite a bit about people on 4chan getting into serious relationships.

>>18553199
>>18553216
Are you joking. What entity indoctrinated you to self loath so much. I used to think whites were so superior until I grew up and realized h o w much attention I get from girls. It's funny, I consider my best friend much better looking than me yet there are many girls who would prefer me over him, even some girls that he seeing for a bit. Embraxe your culture senpai, Arabs are gorgeous people. Im mostly interested in latina/arab/whateverlooksexotic girls and I find those girls aee more attracted to arabs than whites. I admit however that white girls don't fuck with arabs much.

And about OP, maybe you have a point but at least religion kept her straight and she stuck with it. She deserves credit for that. At least she hasn't abandoned it.

>>18555254
I was talking about arab women and their attraction to arab men, not other ethnicities.
Also I think you missed this:

>My sister is a marital counsellor and she has many many stories of women not being attracted to their husbands at all. When asked why did they marry them : He had a stable job and a good education, he prays 5 times, he looked like the one to fulfill my rights etc

My sister think it is very likely because where I come from, the man's money is seen as everything even though it isn't. Women have it easier. They can just wear makeup and cover up the flaws but not men .

>>18555296
Ah yes thats true for a number of Arab cultures but not all. However I still don't think whites necessarily look better than Arabs by any means

>>18555254
>whateverlooksexotic
>looksexotic
>sex
is this a sign?

>>18555335
Yes. Someone please give me sex I'm so desperate. I want to kill myself.

I'm not a female nor am I a Muslim, nor do I know much about anything really. I did read some second wave feminism a while back though and I would suggest that you look up some of the iconic books from that era before you jump into marriage for very basic purposes.

>>18555254
speak for yourself, my prom date was white

>>18556084
in response to white girls not fuckin' with arab guys*

but agreed, you lot need to stop being so self loathing, you'd be surprised.

>>18548793
In case no one has bothered to say masturbate yet, I'm here to say masturbate.

Do you exercise regularly? It can help you with feeling this way. A lot of the time when I feel extra horny is the result of not exercising.

I have no idea why this thread is still up, but I'll contribute to it anyway.

You do know, op, that for thousands of years it has been totally normal for young adults to marry in their prime? In fact, only in our post-modern world is marrying young seen as strange. Even my parents married when they were 24, which is how old I am now.

If you marry young, just be smart and find a man who is strong and will take care of you. Use your instincts, find a good guy.

Can anyone recommend some good surahs for this kind of thing?

>>18549279
t. hoe

>>18557075
this, I dont get why people get salty when someone decides to save themselves for marriage

>>18549278
My offer for marriage still stands

>>18554893
that's some retarded advice. 4chan dating sounds more autistic than I initially thought.
>>18556165
This is actually great advice. Being more active in the past few days has dramatically decreased my drive (even if physically you're fit, doing a little extra physical work does wonders). This is probably the best advice for this kind of issue.
>>18556195
>I have no idea why this thread is still up
this
>for thousands of years it has been totally normal for young adults to marry in their prime
this too
>>18558331
no

btw whoever (probably a mod) thought it was funny to use my ip address to larp as me and post an autistic thread yesterday needs to bath in bleach.

also people need to stop bumping this thread and let it die out.

>>18548803
fuck you sandnigger, nobody wants to read your 2000 years outdated jihad manual.
>>18548793
you should denounce islam first off. like, shed that shit like a second skin. islam is not a religion anybody who likes having rights should follow.
I'm not saying convert to another religion, you can become a damn atheist if you want. if you really need religion for stability in your life then try a different one thats end goal isn't something straight out of a villian comic book.

>>18558910
I'm not denouncing Islam and becoming autistic. Islam is the only religion currently that upholds its morals in a strict way. I'm pro-sharia, anti-feminism (look at what feminism did to the west).
>end goal isn't something straight out of a villain comic book
degenerate doesn't like Islam and thinks it's evil? big deal. Islam doesn't appeal to autistic beta niggerfaggots.

>>18548793
Lol roastie slut. You've probably sucked cock.

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>Muslim roastie.
YOU BRING SHAME TO US 3D BITCH HOW DARE YOU. I CURSE YOUR PARENTS FOR EVEN GIVING YOU INTERNET. AND YOU'RE IN THE US. WHY ARE YOU IN A JEWISH CONTROLLED KAFFIR STATE YOU FUCKING 3D PIG.

Girls can fap right? Just fap.

>>18548793
Everyone on this site is probably a headscarf fetishist that just want to rail you.

>>18553245
I am a muslim guy and I didn't do nothing. What now?

>>18559256
autistic degenerate thinks everyone does what he does
>>18559257
kys kike. US will be an Islamic state inshallah.
>>18559310
>dindu nuffin
I didn't say everyone but just look at sweden what do you expect from men that ran away from war in their own country

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>>18548793
Vrigin girl>>>>>>(many>>>)>>>>>>>>non vorgin hoes
Somewhere out there there's a pure man looking for the purest girl.

>>18549247
>marry cousin
Casually leave up this article about products of incest that happens for centuries
https://mobile.nytimes.com/2003/05/01/world/saudi-arabia-awakes-to-the-perils-of-inbreeding.html
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/children/11723308/First-cousin-marriages-in-Pakistani-communities-leading-to-appalling-disabilities-among-children.html

First instances of cousins marrying are normally okay for the kids, but not in Muslim cultures because in families that practice it, it's been going on for generation upon generation, thus making the chance of recessive disease popping up much more likely, especially when you have more than one child.

I'm not a doctor, but I've heard birth control pills can cripple or kill a woman's sex drive. Have you tried to get your hands on those?

Also, if anyone has advice like ^this but for guys I'd love to hear it, I have basically the same problem except I'm a male and not Muslim.