lifes complicated

>>18548524
Don't try to justify this. It isn't about living life to the "maximum". You did a shithead thing so acknowledge it. Accept being a shithead and confess to your gf, or don't. You'll most likely carry this weight until you come clean so I'd advise getting it done ASAP.

>be legit and no matter what dont cheat
You can't actually do that anymore though, you already cheated.

As someone that's cheated on his GF recently, the way to decide what to do depends on the answer of this one question:

Can you live with the fact that you've cheated on her? Will the guilt fuck with you constantly?

If you can't let this rest and you will constantly think about it and feel guilty, then tell her. The reaction may be a break up, but hey, you will at least sleep calmly at night, knowing that you were honest even when you did something wrong. Honesty to you would be more important than companionship.

But, if you think it's not a big deal and think that it was a one time thing, which is not going to happen again, and you feel that it's not gonna bother you, then don't tell her. A stable and happy relationship would be more optimal in this case than one with absolute, 1000% honesty.

Personally, I chose the second one since I don't even consider what I did cheating, if anything it made me love my GF exponentially more, realizing how good she actually is. Besides, I love her and telling her would be unnecessary trouble.

You're grown enough to have a gf and cheat on her, you're grown enough to figure it out.

Good luck Anon, I believe that whatever choice you make, it'd be the right one.

>Strength
>Pride
>Nobility
Always rule your actions by those three principles, and you'll never go wrong. Seeing what your situation is, the only thing left for you to do is to confess and take responsibility for your actions, and grow by taking it as learning experience for your future.

Anon from >>18548577 here,

Just to add on, if the sex is so bad, communicate, try to fix it. I know it's some cliché bullshit, but it's true. If it doesn't work after both sides actively try to fix the problem, then better start thinking about other ways to satisfy your desires that would still leave you a man of his word. If it doesn't work, then just break it off, don't stoop so low, be an honorable man.

It also comes down to how much you actually love her.