I want to be a nice person for purely selfish reasons. People

I speak from experience. It will not make you TRULY nice, but you should still be nice anyways.
I like being nice because I love it when people pump my ego, and I like to think it makes me a good person (idk if it does or doesn't). Ultimately, it will become a habit.


But don't be TOO nice. People will think you're creepy.

>>18547779
It will make you a nicer person as in, you'll know how to situation in a nicer way. It won't actually make you donate to charity or shit like that, don't worry.

>>1854791
react to situations in a nicer way*

I'm autism.

>>18547779

People are attracted to good people, not nice people. People who force niceties are just the neckbeard 'good guys' who plague dating sites and the like.

If you aren't nice, that's fine. But not being good means that people will recognize being near you as unsustainable; you are taking, not giving, and that will eventually result in a disproportionate supply/demand situation. Teenagers can be easy to fool, as can early 20s; but around the 24 area people start to wisen the fuck up and by the time my age is around, it seems those who shit on people end up on the fringes. It goes around, it comes around.

If you aren't nice, acting nice won't make you liked, it'll make people keep you around when they need shit and drop you when they don't because you're 'that guy/gal,' the one who gets too shitty when drunk or takes freebies at parties or someshit like that.

You can be nice and not good; you can be good and not nice. Think of what people really get drawn to and whether that's 'nice' or 'good.'