i went on a date with the girl i had been crushing on since the beginning of high school just over a year ago (i'm 20), and i fucked it up and we haven't talked much since, and over a year later i still cant stop thinking about it. I saw a picture of her with a shirtless guy in a bathroom selfie today and it crushed me, killed my mood the whole day. now i'm reading through all of our old messages and looking at how stupid i was. how do i stop being like this?
So what happened
>>18547442
Nothing particularly crazy, i just missed every sign and opportunity due to inexperience. We hung out, I didn't make any moves or even express romantic interest besides oogling like an idiot, bought the coffee like a beta and then dropped her off after. I would try to set things up for weeks after but she would just give me the busy excuse.
>now i'm reading through all of our old messages and looking at how stupid i was
Well learn from it, see what you can do better with your next flames. Also it really helps deleting these messages, if they're dragging you down too much.
Get out a little, get to learn new people, it will all seem so irrelevant and absurd once you develop a new - not necessarily romantic - interest.
>>18547490
>get to learn new people
Shit, I meant getting to KNOW new people, not learning them.
What was I thinking, hahahaa.