What should I do?

>>18546991
Hi.

I have the highest IQ on /adv/ and even I couldn't follow your explanation of events.

If my huge brain followed this mess correctly then basically,

>You and friends had a group chat and talked about silly, old, untrue high school rumors.
>One of these rumors involved your best friend

>Your best friend found out about the conversation a time later.

>She was upset and made a big deal, thinking you guys were talking about her and demanded to know what was said.

alright OP. Obliviously self centered? You would know best. It sounds as so. But also, I could understand why she would be annoyed and want to know the details of the rumors amd conversation. I'd be the same way but i wouldn't sperg out like her in asking to know.

All i'll say is, Everyone has their flaws.
She is who she is.
Bringing up what you dont like about her wont do any good.

We make friends and keep family. They wre who they are and if we cant tolerate them, we avoid them or remove them from our lives. The little annoying things, we have to deal with if we can.

>>18547019#

Yeah, I get it we all have our flaws and why she'd be angry about the rumors, it was really the way she treated my other friend during the conversation that upset me.

When you're upset about people not liking you, and one of your friends tries to comfort you saying that "we love you just the way you are, and you shouldn't listen to silly rumors".. your immediate response to that shouldn't be "whoa calm don't, why r u so triggered, lol", you know? It's just plain rude. She treats anyone like that as soon as she's given attention and I hate it.

What made it worse is when I told her she was being rude, she replies with "I'm sorry? Whatever" and continues to complain about the gossip. It just became very awkward for all of us.

>>18546991
ill try to give you insight of the "crazy bitch"

Im coming into conversation. people have been talking about me, behind my back. they dont want to tell me what they have said. they tell me not to worry about it. i was not worrying about nothing until somebody said not to worry about anything. maybe i should worry about it. probably my friends should just tell me which traits of mine have been talkable enough so if i interact with people to be less of an crazy bitch so i may reconsider my behavier. but this one dumb friend number 2 keeps me from reaching my purpose in life

thanks frend

you're all bitches

>>18547042
That's the thing, all that was said was "They made fun of her eyeshadow". That's all the rumor was.
That was about an hour or so later and she comes back into the chat with "Wait what else did they say?!" And pestering the rest of us.
And as soon as my other friend says that it didn't matter, she acted as if it wasn't a big deal. Completely changing in the matter of seconds and laughing at my friend for trying to cheer her up.
This is why she's a "crazy bitch", there's no insight needed.

>>18547071
Its like you have never talked to an women before, they wanna always know what someone is thinking or saying about them. you might have upset her and you probably wouldn't know it. first you tell her, that nothing at all has been said about her besides that and her ongoing outrage is simply womans behaviour. like not even very unsual