I broke up with my boyfriend last night because he doesn't have a car or a cell phone and he wastes all his money on drugs and alcohol. It's really not as bad as it sounds. He's a great guy, very smart. The best person I've ever met, and I'm not much better off either in terms of saving money and I also don't have a car. I blocked him on facebook last night and today we saw each other at work and didn't speak. I miss him and I think we should talk things out. Is it too soon or should I just move on?
>>18546769
A cell phone is $40 once and then $35 monthly. Most drug addicts have cellphones. How does he call his dealer? The fact you have to question whether or not you made the right choice, by leaving him, is concerning.
You probably should've talked to him first unless you already know he won't better himself. You can have an amazing personality and great synergy with you, but destructive behavior with drugs and alcohol doesn't bode well for a healthy relationship.