Yo guys so I scored a date with this cute girl I've been talking to, and she wants to grab drinks Monday night after work. Problem is, I've never actually gone out JUST for drinks before, I'm not sure how it works. Do you just order a drink and go sit at a table, even though you dont get any food? Or...what? I've had drinks before in shitty run down bars, but never took a girl to a nice tavern
No fucking clue.
If it were me, I would bank on that "Haha, it's my first time doing drinks, how does this normally work?" Cute, charming, a little goofy.
>>18546063
No man dont do this
Just like you said, you sit at a table/whatwver and you order some drinks
>>18546069
Fuck what do I do after the drinks? Try to get her to my place? Invite myself to her place? End the night?
>>18546083
Depends on if you are trying to get laid or get a relationship.
>>18546052
Do what you want if you're paying. Tell her you're ordering rib bites if you want.
Whatever you do, stop thinking so damn hard about it. If you order something and she calls it girlie, own it. Say hell yeah I drink it, girlie drinks taste like candy. And I don't think we can really bash alcoholic candy.
As for after, read the signs. Maybe you just do it again, or maybe you go to her place. See where the night goes. Plan to show up and stop planning after that because she has to consent to whatever you do.
order drinks and sit casually, ie at the bar or if at a table, sit on her side. dont sit across from someone if youre just having drinks.
>>18546063
Pls dont do this.