>talk to lady who comes into my work
>says she likes me, adds me on facebook
>im 21 shes 34
>shes a 4/10 for me at best
>has two kids
>but i am desperate as fuck for sex
if she just wants to have sex im cool with it, but i've been dropping hints in messages and it seems she wants to get a coffee and get to know me better. she has a nice ass at least but should i go on a date with a lady way older than me if im not really attracted to her and kind of just want to have sex? how can i tell what she wants? if shes expecting me to be her boyfriend then theres no way
i've been messaging her a lot so i basically need to ask her out to get some coffee now but im really apprehensive. what do you guys think? any advice?
>>18545761
fuck i just asked her if she wants to meet for coffee and she says she wants to bring her kids
this is fucked who does this bitch think i am
>>18545778
Her new husband
>>18545761
Never date anyone with kids. They're the ultimate form of baggage.
>>18545761
Another fallen brother
>>18545778
As a parent, this is gonna happen. It's a lot harder than you think to do anything on your own. Especially if they're young.
>>18545761
she could just want you for sex too. you are young and she is probably fetishizing you in some way. Most older women don't even talk to younger guys unless they are looking to fuck.
just get to know her including getting to know what she is looking for.
Just go with it. There is no one in the world that will sympathize with her for thinking banging a man 12 years younger than her was going to turn into a relationship.
>>18545761
what happened to the kid's father?
Don't follow
>>18547084 advice until you know
>who
is the father,
>where
is the father
>why
the father isn't around
>how
the father isn't around (if he's dead)
NIGGA THAT PUSSY USED
GET A HOOKER PR SOME SHIT
Dont
People dont become single moms unless someone really didnt want them
Dont let your dick fuck up for you
>>18547115
or the other spouse died
a lot of nonsense on here. this could actually be a good idea, if she's not a total psycho likely to go full retard on your boss if things go pear-shaped (unlikely).
casually flirt a little, (social media), meet for coffee, see how things go.
you're just looking for sex, she has a nice ass, what's the problem? with an older woman who isn't looking for a relationship, you can learn a lot, trust me.
older women fall into a number of categories: predatory cougars (the most fun type, though you'll feel like a dildo on a skateboard after a while); the lonely older woman who wants to be made feel desirable (flattery is key here); you get the idea.
don't mention the age thing, just discrete compliments and good sex will do the trick.
good luck!
Haha best thing ever.
Got a friend from high school, lives a couple houses down the street from me. Found a chick with a young daughter, they obviously kicked it off (prolly sucks dick like a pro), he's 25 she's like 22, and until a couple of days ago she was pregnant with his child, and was the sweetest, nicest person to talk to. She gave birth a couple days ago, now she bosses him around and he had to walk her daughter and push his own childs stroller while she walks 10m in front of them and smoked ciggies.
this is so not worth it. you are basically the scape goat for this women and she wants you to raise her kids with if not for her
either that of she genuinely likes you and want to be with you but she need to put her kids first and foremost so she is bringing her kids to see if they will like you and if the kids like you then she will proceed, otherwise she will not proceed because no one is going to date someone that their kids doesnt approve in a way
the worse scenario is she is using you as her wallet. she is bringing her kids along so you have to buy them expensive shit for a treat for her kids. after that, she probably wont talk to you anymore since she already gotten something from you or she will keep doing it and use you until you put your foot down and say enough is enough