Its almost a year since i broke up with my first ever gf. Im generally socially awkward so by managing to date a girl was a big step for me (im 22 btw). Our relationship though soon started to be abusive to both ends. She used to guilt trip me about things i have done or said and i used to become more of a senseless jerk at times. Our breakup was mutual but sometimes i get the feel that i miss her or start comparing other girls i know to her. I tried to socialise more ,take new hobbies etc but my mind isnt completely of her. Any advice?
Been exactly the same by your age
Cut any and all contact with her. Delete her of all your social media, delete songs that remind you of her, delete any and all pictures you might have of her. Literally detox yourself of her.
Also, use what you learned as a parameter of what you don't want. Most things you're attached to her now are things you can get with any other girl, you just don't realize it because you're inexperienced
>b-but her smile and her laugh and the sex
Yeah, you're having the same feelings when you fall for someone else
Hit the ground running, when I was your age online dating wasn't even a thing, do that, talk to dozens of girls, make a fool of yourself, learn with your mistakes and get yourself a new qt when you feel like