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During sexting, I told my girlfriend in the heat of the moment that I wanted the D in my A while she is giving me a bj (trying to keep this as worksafe as possible). Anyway, she was really upset and I wonder if this is homophobia or not. It's not that she has a problem with my sexuality, but she thinks she isn't enough for me now and that's not true. I am 100% monogamous. It's just a fantasy, so why is she upset that I am attracted to both women and pre-op trannies?
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I would also be upset. I mean, I wouldn't think anything bad of you, but I'd lose attraction for you and could also feel like I'm not enough (not too sure about that)
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>>18544863
This kind of sounds like the penis envy meme though. It's no different than fantasizing about a woman in porn. It doesn't mean I'd rather be with that person.
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>>18544849
I would be upset too because it would mean that we're not compatible. I don't want to date a guy who is bi or attracted to trannies.
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>>18544869
Dunno, I'd feel a similar way if it was a dude instead of a tranny, however I'm pretty laid back and non jealous in general, not like the people that can't accept their partners may be attracted to other people too.

>>18544870
Yeah
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>>18544870
If he's attracted to you, what's the problem? We're perfect for each other in every way and she really likes me a lot. I'm not attracted to them irl anyway. Only in a few vids where they pass with lots of makeup and camera angles to not look like men.
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>>18544882
>not like the people that can't accept their partners may be attracted to other people too
Exactly this. I don't want to be with anyone but her. I still fantasize, but she's all I need.
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>>18544849
Pegging
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>>18544887
I'm still saying I'd be turned off by my bf liking trannies or other men.
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>>18544888
Trips win. She said she would, but she's nervous about it. Probably because I'm we have a very dom/sub sexual relationship and she's sub.
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>>18544890
What is it about it that turns you off? I'm not saying you should be turned on by it, but I know a lot of men are turned on by women being bi. It seems less common for women to like men being bi.
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>>18544883
>If he's attracted to you, what's the problem?

Our morals and lifestyle diverge; I don't approve of certain things and wouldn't feel comfortable with a partner who in these quite important matters have a different opinion. With trannies it doesn't matter to me whether they pass or not. It's a question of the principle.
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>>18544892
Ok, order her to do it then reward her with her fantasy.
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Yeah, telling a woman that she isn't enough and that you now want dick. She have no reasons to be upset.
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>>18544890
I'm with you anon. Nothing turns me off quicker than man on man. I have no problem with homosexuality or bisexuality but for a relationship as a heterosexual woman I want a heterosexual man. Not one that gives to another guy or receives from a guy a penis.
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>>18544912
Being enough =/= being awesome
My gf is enough to me. Having her and other girls is more than enough, but it doesn't make it any less awesome
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Threads like these makes me appreciate my boyfriend so much more.

>inb4 he probably wants penis, too
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>>18544849
I'm 95% sure you'll eventually leave her or cheat on her. You want to live out your fanatasies.
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>>18544849
Way to ruin a woman's self-esteem.
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>>18544920
Exactly. She's still going to be my queen no matter what. If we had another women in bed it's really not going to affect how I feel about my woman at all.
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>not wanting a cuck boyfriend who takes it up the ass
I'll help you out, OP. 7x5".
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>>18544944
Nah. I'm the type who cheats and I really don't think that's something that leads to cheating. I don't even want a nasty trap irl anyway because I know it would be obvious that it's a man. It will never happen.
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>>18544950
Really? Is your self esteem hinged on whether you have a penis?
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>>18544954
>If we had another women in bed it's really not going to affect how I feel about my woman at all
Confirmed for not ever having had another woman in bed.
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>>18544959
That's not a cuck fetish.
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>>18544961
If you like men who dress up as women, you like men.
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>>18544964
Are you saying you had a threesome and stopped loving your girlfriend because of it?
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>>18544966
She can join, idc, but I'm the one fucking your ass.

>implying you wouldn't leave her after one good dicking
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>>18544863
>I wouldn't think anything bad of you
I would. I'm not ashamed to admit that, either.
When you're mine, you stay with the program: you're attracted to me and that's it.
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>>18544968
False equivalence. I like videos of men who look like women in the video and also have a penis. I don't like men in general. That's like saying you also like bulldykes because you like women.
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>>18544971
Nah, I loved her, but I ended up cheating on her several times. I'm not proud but it is what it is.
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>>18544976
Haha I see. Nah. I wouldn't leave my girl.
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>>18544983
Why not watch two lesbians pegging each other?
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>>18544979
That's so unrealistic that you will only be able to have a relationship with liars. You are demanding that your partner lies to you so that's what you get. A liar. I'm all about being open and honest with my girl.
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>>18544986
You don't know that.

>7x5
How can she even compete? Think about it.
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>>18544987
I do. Actually that's way hotter than shemales. A real penis on a real female would be a scientific breakthrough, but all they can do is a Frankenstein abomination so far.
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>>18544994
How are your tits tho?
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>>18544990
You sounds like a cuck. That's exactly how cucks think: "I'm just being honest about how much my woman likes other men…"
People ought to have standards. They used to: the institution of marriage was based on the standard of monogamy. One man, one woman, one family, one truth.
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>>18544968
/thread
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>>18544983
You love cock and you want it inside you. You desperately don't want to be "gay." So you've invented a fantasy scenario where you can get what you want without having to confront uncomfortable truths about yourself
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>>18545001
I'm a 27 year old man. You can dress up for me. You won't get any sub out of me. I will cuddle with you, though.
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>>18545002
>false equivalence
My woman doesn't like other men. That's the only required element of the cuck fetish and it's not present. Quit projecting so hard. Cucking isn't something that normally crosses my mind, but you keep derailing yourself with it.
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>>18544849
There is literally nothing wrong with you sucking cock op.

But it has to be mine.
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>>18545008
I find men very unattractive and can't imagine being physically intimate with a male. Are you gay because you like cock or because you find men attractive?
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You're gay, dude. You almost described my past. I broke up with her, though.
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>>18545022
>Are you gay because you like cock
Yes.
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>>18545022
Have you ever had a real offer/opportunity for gay sex? Like, have you ever been in a situation where you could actually do stuff with a guy without much risk or effort?
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>>18545027
Why are gays always trying to recruit so hard? There's no way I will ever find another male attractive. How can kiss a man? Just tell me that. It seems repulsive to me.
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>>18545022
>t.jaden smith
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>>18545033
Ok well how are you able to be attracted to men just because you like anal stimulation? You are ok with being entangled with and kissing another male? That seems very gross to me.
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>>18544849
>Anyway, she was really upset and I wonder if this is homophobia or not
What the fuck, she's your girlfriend. She's entitled to have feelings about your sexuality, even if they aren't politically correct. Nobody's forcing you to date her. Are you really gonna try to bully her into pretending to be OK with it by calling her a homophobe?
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>>18545037
You're just in denial. Been there myself.

You'll soon realise that you want another man's penis inside your delicate anus.
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>>18545045
Because you want a real cock inside of you?
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>>18545036
Yes in San Francisco a man offered to name my price to let him suck me off. I declined. It's a bit difficult to describe the repulsion it makes me feel. I don't have ill will toward anyone, but it genuinely disgusts me.
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>>18545037
>>18545045
>b-baka, that's so disgusting, i-it's not like I want to kiss you or anything!!!
the lady doth protest too much
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>>18545033
/thread
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>>18545040
I was asking that anon specifically if he is attracted to men or if he is strictly attracted to penis and tolerates men or something. It wasn't meant to be philosophical.
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>>18545054
Was that the only time? Because even as a gay man I would be disgusted by that offer too. Desperation and bargaining aren't turn-ons for most people
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>>18545053
OMG you're right, anon. How could I have been so blind? Thank you! I'm going to go jump through a rainbow and bask in the praise I receive for being so brave and taking cock like a good goy. Haha yeah right.
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>>18545065
I can see that. I turned down an offer from a woman that same week. It's just really strange to be propositioned for sex on the street. I have had a couple of gay friends. One never hit on me. One hit on me constantly trying to get me to let him suck me off, but I just never was into that. He's more on the feminine side, but it's just a turn off to me.
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Anyway, I'm old enough to be confident in my sexuality. I know what I like and don't like. The question was really more about the relationship situation and letting her know she's everything I need, regardless.
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>>18545087
>letting her know she's everything I need
You're contradicting yourself hard, man.
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>>18545092
For example?
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>>18545092
If you're gay and trying to convince me to be your hole, I'm not interested. Have fun jerking off on another lonely night.
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>>18545102
Her gf will never have a real dick? She will never be a trap?
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>>18545108
So what? I don't want to date a trap. In a hypothetical scenario where I met a 10/10 passable trap (doesn't exist irl), I would want to use it for my own pleasure for an hour or so while making love to my girlfriend and then discard it as little more than a sex toy. Nobody compares to my woman.
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>>18545087
>>18545114
Is she fine with all of this? >>18544849

What is she like?
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>>18545114
You do of course realise that traps are men, right?
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>>18545119
Yes. She just wants to feel like she's everything I need because she loves to please me. She's really pretty, loves me a lot, and we connect well in every level.
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>>18545123
Yes, I'm not retarded. That's why I see them as more of a fantasy than a reality. I've never seen one in person who didn't just look like a man in drag up close.
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>>18545114
>Nobody compares to my woman.
Friendly advice: This is not how straight men talk, you're not passing
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>>18545133
You do realise that she could be with anyone, right?

bb
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>>18544849

its not homophobia, but she DOES have a problem wtih your sexuality. and that doesn't make her wrong or bad or evil or whatever. we have tons of problems iwth our partners, and sexuality can be a big one if were not compattible.

unfortunately bisexuals are still in a place that makes most straights (and even a lot of gays) uncomfortable. some bisexuals get upset by this, even angry that people think they might cheat if they don't get their fix of the other sex... but a large amount of them do. despite what they say, you can't just turn off your attraction to the other sex, and to think that the person can control themselves for the rest of their lives, something that even straights have trouble with in their more narrow sexuality, is kinda silly.
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>>18545137
>how straight men talk
>passing
Straight men aren't worried about such things.
>>18545145
That's a random thing to dwell on. Either of us could go find some other person, but why think like that? I'm not afraid of losing her and we have a great relationship. If I were so preoccupied with such fear, it would get in the way of things.
>>18545156
That's probably the most down to Earth thing I've read ITT. Except the part about cheating. I just don't cheat in general and if I ever did it would be with a woman.
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>>18545196

>except the part about cheating

a knight in shining armor has never had his metal tested.
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>>18545202
Why do you make such assumptions? I've been skinny dipping in a hot tub with beautiful women and pushed on off when she got in my lap and wanted to make out. Where is the test when I prefer monogamy? It's my preference. Not something inflicted on me. I feel bad for people like you who are carrying such a burden. Are you sure you are really into monogamy or do you need to reevaluate things?
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>>18545236

>are you sure you are really into monogamy

I never said I was 'into' monogamy. I've got my life in order chap, I'm just explaining to you why straights have trouble with our kind.
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>>18545254
Oh I see. My girl doesn't have any doubts about that, thankfully. I had one girlfriend in particular who was overly distrusting and it's just not acceptable.
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