My gf has gotten very lethargic since we've started dating. It's getting really annoying, the thought of having to go up some stairs or walking more than 30 steps somewhere is met with moans and whines. On top of that she is gaining weight, and really letting herself go. Every day she complains about getting stomach aches, and I know its because of all the junkfood she eats and her lack of exercise. I'm not sure how to bring it up, but her weight gain is really a turn off for me. As well as her laziness and complete contempt for any kind of exercise, she'd rather lay around scrolling through instagram or watch movies. I say she can do that forever when she's older, she's not disabled so why not do more active things now while you're young and somewhat healthy? She complains that she feels faint and gets lungpain whenever she has to do any kind of cardio. She's not fat but she is definitely packing on some pounds. Should I just leave her? She's a sweet girl, but her attitude towards this is almost impossible to deal with.
Leave her.
Fat women are the worst; and not just because of their physical appearance.
>>18542081
she's not fat though, at least not yet
she will be tho if this continues for another few weeks
if it gets that bad, ultimatum. either have her care for herself, or breakup
>>18542098
Tbh this. Your gf is becoming an insufferable person. Let her know that her negativity is annoying.
Has it ever occurred to you that she might have a medical condition? Take her to a doctor before you jump to conclusions that she's just a shitty person.
OP your post makes me wonder if she doesn't have a medical condition that could be causing this. What you described isn't normal.
Feed her caffeine every day.
>>18542078
You take her phone out of her hands, stand right in front of her and tell her
>dayum gurl, you gettin fat as fuck yo, and dis nigga ain't doin any of dat bbw sheit, so get yo ass movin into the gym
Or something like that. The more blunt you are about it, the more honest her reaction will be and you'll know if there's a chance for her. If there's none, you leave her.
Unless you're ready to get into fatty porn.