Got a problem

>>18538548
that's kinda fucked up yeah, unless you're clear about what you're doing and the reasons

>>18538552
She's already gained a good amount of weight since we started dating. But it wasn't like I forced her to eat or anything

Why don't you just get with an already obese fatty and leave this poor girl alone?

>>18538555
Thegirl I'm with is already chubby on her own so

>>18538555
And has already gained weight since we've been dating

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That's from when we first started dating to now

>>18538572
her face improved at least lmao'

>>18538572
Damn shame. You can even see how unhappy she's getting about it too.

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>>18538582
Eh

basically enabling a whole host of health issues, related to weight gain.
kys

see >>18538555

>>18538548
why do you want to make her unhealthier? all your doing is shorting her life because your pee pee gets hard when she's fat.

>>18538548
Is it bad? Yes.

>>18538548
Talk too her about it don't just fatten her up tell her you like fattys and see how happy she is being one

You are doings God's work anon keep it up.

>>18538572
She was hot before, wtf is wrong with you?

>>18538640
You don't think she's hot now?

>>18538649
She wasn't hot before, that anon just has a low standard.

>>18538627
I've mentioned it before and she's given a mixed reaction. She got fatter on her own though

>>18538653
She is hotter now

>>18538649
She looks like shit now, imo.

>>18538548
>is it bad if I purposely fatten her up? I know she will get shit from her family and what not if that happens
yes, you fucking degenerate. Especially if her family will give her shit

If she doesnt have a feeding fetish, then dont force it on her.

>>18539371
How much weight do you think she's gained?

>>18538587
She had a nice body before. Just have her do squats

>>18539375
30+ pounds

>>18539374
She doesn't have a fetish but she loves food and personally doesn't care about getting fat, just her family that puts pressure on her not to be

>>18538572
>>18538587
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>18539383
Smart one

>>18538548
>>18539386
Don't do it OP. Fellow fetishist here (though I care less about gaining, I'm more into stuffing) and it's absolutely immoral to fatten her up. It doesn't matter whether or not she cares, the world cares. What happens if you break up with her and she has a much harder time finding another guy because of what she did to her body for you? It's much easier to gain weight than to lose it. What's more, the world cares a lot about appearances and being overweight will even effect her ability to find friends, a job and so on.

Now if she was a feedee it would be different. But allowing her to fuck herself over for your desires is an absolute dick move and this is why food related fetishes have such a shitty reputation.

>>18539392
So even if she is kinda ambivalent about gaining? Like she hates working out, And loves food. So idk I feel like she's half a step away from being into it... maybe just wishful thinking. Also as acfelllow fetishist do you think she looks good?

>>18538548
Seriously man, you'll forever be an asshole if you ever convince anybody to get fat

>>18539402
It's not the same thing also because not working out and enjoying food is a short term benefit. Whereas the long term consequences are much harder to judge. Hell, she would need to actually get fat before really knowing what kind of life experience she's signing up for. Not being able to buy cute clothes easily, occasional rude comments, being out of breath quickly, sweating and being hot... you name it. And it would be different if it were that easy to lose weight, but gaining takes much less effort.

I can see that she is much more conventionally good looking in the before pictures and find her prettier there. For the shape with the prominent waist-hip difference. I would rather be in bed with the after pictures because I find that more expressly arousing. Thin pictures make me go "that's a nice figure, looking good" but evokes nothing else. After pictures make me want to dig my fingers in there. You probably know what I mean.

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>>18539412
Idk part of my fetish started simply because she was getting fat in the first place. And I'm not talking about making her monstrously obese. Maybe just 20 or 30 more pounds to what she is here

>>18539448
It's her body man. At the end of the day she has to deal with it and live with people's responses to it much much much more than you will ever benefit from her looks. It is shitty enough if she wants to gain weight herself then potentially dislikes how she looks. What if you encourage her only for it to destroy her self esteem? And who says that she can just reel it in herself after binging on stuff for prolonged time?

The consequences are just too serious, and are hers to cope with. Enjoy her present pudge and passively hope that she gets bigger still. That's all you can reasonably do.

>>18539466
I suppose so. How much do you think she weighs as of now?

>>18539473
How tall is she?

>>18539484
5'7 she used to be like 135

>>18539492
175? 180?

>>18539502
Yeah. I just want her to be 195-205 then I'd be happy

>>18539510
I still stand by everything I said. Weight impacts a lot more than sex life.

>>18539515
Yeah but she doesn't really look unhealthy as of now does she?

>>18539530
No, but several factors. One being that you cannot actually see whether someone is healthy or not. Consuming lots of fatty and sugary foods in itself is quite unhealthy even if you do not gain weight from it.
What's more, bracketing health we live in a world where fat people are not just often deemed as unattractive and gross, but also looked down upon in other ways. People who have their own faults will rationalize thinking little of her with the whole "she obviously has no self control and it's because of her own actions so clearly her body is just an indicator of having a shit personality". Open your eyes and look at how "normal" people think of and look at people who are noticeably fat. Those are the people she will interact with the most, not her boyfriend with the kink.

>>18538548
Thats crazy dude. She's not cattle.

>>18539540
That makes sense. So she's at least noticeably fat as of now? Like if you saw her you'd consider that fat

>>18539548
I'd consider her chubby. But I'm (Western) European, for what it's worth.

What gets you off about fat girls?

>>18539570
Other anon into this, if it matters to you. Answers might vary a little but it has to do with hedonism for me, the mild embarrassment of anyone seeing in a quick glance that you don't know your limits. Which to me also makes it more vulnerable (and in a way more real/raw) to see a girl undress for you when she has a conventionally quite imperfect figure, vs if she looks like a model. Then there's just the superfluous curves and softness, very lavish. Being able to grope her stomach like it's a boob.

Then there's the mild taboo factor, there's this whole cultural trope that every guy is deadly afraid of his girlfriend getting fat. The idea of actively encouraging her to be a pig goes directly against that. It's weird and would shock some. The very sight of a pretty girl stuffing her face with food isn't really something typical.

>>18539596
I certainly understand the taboo factor. When society says we shouldn't like something, it's not uncommon for us to like it for precisely that reason.
And the vulnerability too. Insecure fat girls are very selective about who sees their bodies. It's a real honor to be given the opportunity to see.

Hm. What do you think about girls with eating disorders? I have a binge/restrict eating disorder. While I have phases of stuffing my face with a ton of food, I'm actually underweight. So there's the aspect of uncontrollable hedonistic feeding. Though there'd be less of those disapproving glances. Whenever I'm in a binge phase, people are always laughing and encouraging me and cheering me on and giving me more.

>>18539620
It is scarier but it's also about it (fat - or older or whatever for that matter - people being sexual) not being shown in the media or anything. Which makes the contrast between the sort of sterile photoshopped pictures or mainstream porn and reality all the more dramatic. It is thrilling to get off on something that comes from within, that you might rationalize but don't quite intellectually understand yourself, that has nothing to do with what you are implicitly told you should find sexy.

Not to discourage you but if I love someone I am not going to be happy about them having a troubled relationship with eating. For their sake and selfishly because it would make me feel guilty to get off on. But stuffing (overeating, essentially) is actually my focus more so than weight gain itself, so yes it would arouse me to be with a girl who binges on food. Just preferably because she's on her period and feels like it and not because of a disorder.

>>18539638
Ah, yeah, true, I'd feel similarly. Nobody wants to see the people they love suffering. I'm not discouraged, I'm not exactly seeking out a feeder guy. Just curious about what the qualifications are. Fetishes are really interesting to me! Their motivations are convoluted and obscured, sometimes even from their practitioners. It's pretty cool.
If it makes you feel any better, binging is the best part of my eating disorder. It feels so good. As I'm advancing in recovery, I'm honestly missing it. A binge feels orgasmic when you've been living off the minimum for an extended period.

>>18539672
It entirely depends on the person. There's a lot of food related kinks, some are really innocent (like simply being a chubby chaser because the full bodyshape appeals to your bits more) and some are flat out morbid (getting off on women becoming so obese that they face heart failure is a thing - and I don't mean the medical part as a way to indicate how fat they are, I mean they literally get off on medical issues arising itself). Personally I never understood the desire to take things to the extreme. I love a body I can grope everywhere, I find it very feminine if she has those little cushions of fat everywhere, but I usually prefer chubby over fat. Then again as I mentioned my focus is on the binging and foodbabies itself, more than gaining. And I am into the hedonism and enjoyment of it, nothing to do with force.

This might also be a gendered thing, I'm actually a (bisexual) woman and in my experience men tend to be more.. I don't know, all or nothing about their turn ons.

I can absolutely understand that and have heard it before from stuffers. Also the freedom from letting go itself. For those who get sexually off on it that often plays into it, that it's strangely hot to feel good about pigging out instead of just feeling gross and fat afterwards.

>>18539716
Forgive my assumptions. Though I'm sure you're used to it here.
I've noticed that about guys too. Must have something to do with the hormones.
That's true, having someone enjoying me eat would add another layer on top. I could see myself getting way too into all that, since my submission presents as getting off to getting others off. What a treat it'd be to make someone feel good in a way that is pleasurable for me as well.

>>18539773
No problem at all, completely used to it and I actually figured I should've probably pointed it out as soon as you said you were interested in what the expectations were.
Yeah, when I was younger and obviously used to my own turn ons I used to think that male and female sexuality wasn't as different as it is typically portrayed, that it was mostly stereotypes that made it seem that way and so on. By now I have changed my mind, I can instantly tell whether a video or story has a male or female audience in mind. Eg women recording themselves usually focus on how full they feel, how good it felt to eat all that stuff, whether they got looks from other people, talking about wanting to just spend the entire day lazing around and eating... the overall psychological experience. With men it's more comparing how much weight they gained since the last video, chugging drinks after coming back from a restaurant, talking about wanting to get obese or explode. It's more straightforward in a way, and more about bigger/harder/more graphic than last time.

It can be absolutely great. I have a mild thing for this myself although I have never thoroughly acted on it because as mentioned, there's a lot of feelings involved. I like the idea of being soft when I'm aroused but not afterwards when I'm in a different mindset. Still though I have been with a partner who happily indulged me a bit in the heat of the moment and it is the most safe and soothing feeling to have someone not just accept that but act all excited and tender about it. I would just very strongly recommend that you try to stabilize your dynamic with food as much as you can before trying anything like this. Sadly I have seen a lot of people I get off on get caught in a toxic cycle of binging and feeling horny and sexy, only to feel disgust afterwards. It can add another dimension to these swings.

is everyone <18 and white? is mayo spicy???

man she's not even chubby from those after pics. she got a little bit thick, whoopie (nice, though). don't purposefully make her fat. if you enjoy her new chub, enjoy it man.

stick girls aren't any fun, you can't handle them as rough as you want, and can't have fun eating like you do. fuck it dude.

>>18539817
You're right about that difference! Mental versus physical. Fascinating.
Yeah, it'd be pretty dangerous for me. Food is complicated enough as it is. Stupid sexy food!
What did your partner do with you?

>>18539869
Obviously as a woman I think we have our priorities straight! But seriously I never understood the fascination with taking everything to the nth level. Eg I love people complaining about holiday gain because it's so commonplace and my mind jumps to all the extra good food that was available. To me that is much sexier in a realistic, human experience kind of way, than someone making a big show out of forcefeeding. But I guess the variety in interpretations is part of the fun.

Well, at least you know that this is a thing! Lots of (mostly, afaik) men into women letting go. Perhaps at some point in the future.

Nothing extreme, both because back then I didn't have the guts to confess just how far it went (he was one of those who doesn't really have "weird' turn ons and I had not fully come to terms yet with liking these things myself) and because I'm actually pretty shitty with overeating. I love eating up until I've had enough and then a switch flips, and I don't really want to push that boundary either for practical reasons. But I'll never forget the first time he outright touched my stomach, I was sitting down and had just had dinner and instinctively sucked in my stomach. He told me not to do that and I let go and he was grabbing me all over and just sort of moaning about how soft and feminine it was. So I mustered up the courage to tell him I actually liked being touched there a lot. Later on he joked (I think, we were pretty open with each other so I doubt he was just downplaying his interest) about fattening me up and wondering what I looked like if I was heavier. I asked him where he wanted the weight to go and he was considering options while feeling up parts of my body and sort of getting an idea of how soft it already was.

It was great but as I said I didn't dare to do much. It probably sounds like nothing but it was quite sweet to experience. Next time I'll give less fucks, would love a full belly massage :)

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>>18539859
>man she's not even chubby from those after pics. she got a little bit thick
Thicc fags get out reee etc

>>18539892
That is a wholesome moment. I'd bet it was a great sexy bonding experience. I'm real happy for you. It made me smile :)

>>18539925
It was great actually. I had never realized before that I might also enjoy being on the receiving end of these things, it had always made me uncomfortable to think about. But it was actually a great feeling, kind of like doing weird cutesy rituals you know are ridiculous but feel sweet, only sexually charged. So yes very strong bonding, it still makes me feel a little fuzzy to look back on.

I'm heading to bed, it's pretty late here. I hope you reach a good place for yourself where you can enjoy indulging in a way that adds to your life and does not cause you any kind of anxiety. And that at least you know there's a lot to discover still! Have a good day anon.

>>18539942
Thank you! I hope you have a good day too. Good night!

>>18539570
Honestly I think part of It is primal. In ancient days the fatter you were, the higher the signs of wealth and prominence. I think it has something to do with that. I personally kinda wish I wasn't so into fatter chicks, but whatever