How to stop being paranoid about significant other cheating?

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2017-07-20 05:56:53 Post No. 18537120
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 05:56:53 Post No. 18537120 [Report]

How to stop being paranoid about significant other cheating?

I've been married for 4 years and dated for 3 years before that. Never had any reason to suspect that my wife would cheat. However, she's the type that is always the center of attention at parties, and likes to drink a lot. She's also very attractive.

Whenever she goes anywhere, I think she could be cheating. Slightly different from that paranoia is that whenever she drinks at any type of gathering (wedding, party, etc.) without me, I think some guy could take a liking to her, and she could think he's funny/handsome/whatev and end up making out with him because she's drunk.

I know I'm a loser, puss, autist, but can anyone tell me what they tell themselves that makes them confident that their significant other won't cheat when they are out without you? I literally started therapy because of how bad my brain is fucked....

Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:09:46 Post No.18537148
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:09:46 Post No.18537148 [Report]

I was going to say go to therapy. You have something going on in your head that makes you very insecure. So it's good that you're already doing that. No shame in it, friend.

Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:10:59 Post No.18537154
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:10:59 Post No.18537154 [Report]

I have the same thing and I think I can honestly say what you're experiencing is just generalized anxiety. I get paranoid all the time about my SO cheating, even though I would notice him out for that long, notice weird behavior, etc. You really just have to tell yourself that you're super wrong, and just will that into your head. Therapy is a pretty good step to help that, though. GL man

Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:11:43 Post No.18537157
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>>18537120

>I know I'm a loser, puss, autist

Yeh.

>I literally started therapy because of how bad my brain is fucked

Keep going to therapy. Stop coming here.

Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:42:13 Post No.18537259
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 06:42:13 Post No.18537259 [Report]

you cant stop it, so stop worrying about it

all you can do is fuck her properly so she doesnt feel the need to have another dick in her

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