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In need of sense being knocked into me

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Alright so, I've been working on myself and my dating life. I want to know what to do, even though it seems obvious. Oneitis is a bitch, even after all this.

I befriended a girl I liked. Wrong move right there. She became a very good friend and I told her I had a crush on her after a few months. She knew and we had a good laugh about how obvious I was. It turns out she lied about having a boyfriend to spare my feelings. Things... feel tense now.

I want to tell her I'm not okay with being friends with her. I want to date her. If I do, I have to separate from a friend who dealt with my bullshit and has encouraged me to do better in life. She genuine and I'm flipping the fuck out.

What can I do? Can I do something where I can just stop being so stressed? I don't want to lose my friend but at the same time, I want to be more.
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Well, by the looks of it, the only solution seems to be me, fucking her.

I don't see any other ways, OP.
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>>18532392
How am I supposed to fuck someone that isn't interested, Anon?
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>>18532378
>I want to tell her I'm not okay with being friends with her. I want to date her.
Why do you have to do it in such a dramatic & negative way? Just ask her out to dinner & a movie. Keep it light for now, take this one step at a time
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>>18532416
I can't sugarcoat this. She isn't interested and she even said she was afraid I might try to court her again.
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>>18532397
Op, date another woman if possible. Even if you dont like her that much right away. If you arent able to do that, then that is the problem. Use tinder, hell visit a hooker (make sure shes independant tho pimping is immoral) and see hoe much your feelings in your heart change. BTW if it really hurts u badly being her friend then cut off all comunication with her. Ita not worth it to be delusional. If she doesnt like you thats that. If all my advice fails there's always killing yourself with a shotgun to the head (jokin haha) it may seem like a big deal at the time but i bet in 2 years u'll varely remember this situation.
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>>18532427
Well, I did do that. I dated another girl for two months and my friend was there for me because I was unhappy. I recently went and had a casual fling with someone from my hometown. It doesn't hurt that badly after the casual thing but I still feel it a bit.
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