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How to not be a lazy fuck / worst person to exist? 2017-07-18 01:53:01 Post No. 18530730
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How to not be a lazy fuck / worst person to exist?
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2017-07-18 01:53:01
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Really don't know where to start honestly.
I'm 18M and I need advice on life in general, I'm a neet (dropped out of high school in 2015), have 0 friends personally, the only friends I have is online, and I'm a very socially awkward guy. So I have nothing to do but sit at home all day. My only hobby is producing music which isn't making me any money at all to the point where im slowly losing passion of it. I have multiple opportunities to not be lazy and get a life such as getting a job application from dollar tree and one from where my sister works where I'll be washing dishes. Also I'm going to take GED classes when fall comes but I feel so lazy and anxious to do any of it. Some days I think it's all in my head and I'll be fine while others I feel extra fucking lazy and get nervous whenever I hear the word job.
On top of being a drop out neet it doesn't help my anxiety and social confidence that I'm a black no life that's 5'6 with a 5 inch dick and very boring, so getting a girlfriend that will help me be a better person is out the window.
I don't know. I just feel very disappointed with my life so far.
So I need advice (Harsh or not) /adv.
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What does being black and your dick size have to do with your story? Unless you are trolling, just get that job washing dishes, gives you a sense of purpose and keeps you preoccupied until you can get to take some classes.
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There's this common misconception that the mind makes your actions, but it's actually the other way around, your actions make your mind. I know it sounds odd, but it's true.
You probably go about life like this:
>I should be fit, but I don't want to work out
>How do I change my mind so that I want to work out?
>I'll read some online about it, maybe even read a book
At the end of the day, you still can't manage to get started.
What you should be doing is this:
>I should be fit, but I don't want to work out
*force yourself to do it even though you hate it*
Eventually you start feeling better about it, and about life in general.
We've evolved to act, and most of our mind is still attuned to that. Thinking is a very new thing evolutionarily speaking, so don't worry too much about it.
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Yeah that makes alot of sense. That things that I am forced to do most of time like public interaction does make me a bit better about my self. I will try and apply this to get a job as well. Thanks Anon.
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This post was supposed to have more to it to make it a, "Why does my current life feel so shitty and a waste" but I figured it wasnt needed. Just another thing to feel shitty about.
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