Cease and desist letter

>>18530326
You haven't explained enough for us to really know.

>asked her about it through chat in a caring way,
>asking about "lewd" articles
>in a caring way
Were you a nice guy about it?

>sent screenshots
..of what?

Sounds like you got creepy like an autist and she overreacted from what you've said. What articles? Why are you even asking about her interest in "lewd" articles in a caring way? Is she 13 years old, and too young for it? As for the whole screenshots thing, that sounds creepy as shit without knowing what exactly you sent.

This whole thing seems like one misunderstanding and stupid reaction after another.

>>18530344
It went something like

>hey, you're liking really weird stuff on FB
>huh? like what?
>[title of lewd article x3]
>Idk about that !
>sent screenshots of stuff I'm getting on my feed (most of the browser)
>that's not me
>sent one last screenshot
>STOP SENDING ME STUFF U PERVERT
>blocked me

We did talk the following day about it and I told her I was seeing them on my feed. She said I couldn't explain it anymore. We went cold after that. Around 2 weeks after, all her friends blocked me at the same time. When I saw them, they'd split from me with a bad look.

She was 22.

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>>18530344
One of the articles she was liking. ss shows her profile liking it ("________ like this")

>>18530354
Did you clarify that you were just warning her that her account maybe got hacked and she should change her password?

>>18530706
No. When I sent her the files, I thought she was liking them voluntarily, honestly. The following day, I told her I was just seeing them on my feed and that I wanted to say that maybe she shouldn't be liking those stuff.

>>18530710
your mistake, m80.

>>18530724
I don't think I deserve the way she seemed to have described me though. They weren't even porn.

Lawyer said the C&D is viable and she's a woman too, already seen the chat log.

>>18530768
You come across as not exactly being in command of your social skills, you know that, right?
Suppose her account had been hacked, then she'd be justified to block you and treat you as she did - no context for this lewd shit, straight out of thin air. Legally, I have no idea and I don't care.

On the other hand, if it were her that was liking the said lewd articles, what business of yours is it? What were trying to accomplish here, especially since we've established that you weren't motivated out of concern that her account had been hacked or anything?
You equally come across as creep since I am guessing that your relationship with this girl is rather tenuous.

>tl;dr: get a life and get over yourself, sunshine.

>>18530781
>Legally, I have no idea and I don't care.

I think whether or not something is legal has a lot of implication whether or not what someone does is 'proper'. Lawyer's assessment was that undue damage was done to my reputation from accusations that were not wholly true.

Anyway, you sound very bitter. Are you a girl?

>>18530804
Ah, the classic robo-incel comeback. No I'm not a girl, I'm probably old enough to have spawned you in my wild youth, truth be known, I'm just a man with common sense, a bit of perspective and a lack of time for bullshit or assumed autism, that's all. Oh yeah, and American style addiction to litigation, that too.

Come on, OP, tell us what the nature of your relationship with this girl is instead of bringing out the big gun legalistic crap, if you want to continue this conversation.

>>18530804
PS: *I* sound bitter? FFS, you're the one bringing a defamation case against some random because you're such a thin-skinned pussy. GTFO.

>>18530820
>PS: *I* sound bitter?

Yes.

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>>18530813
Being a thin skinned pussy is all the rage now haven't you heard?

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>>18530830
Yeah, looks like it, even on here of all places, all these summerfags... Beats getting a job if you can just sue, sue, sue.

Honestly this seems like a whole lotta effort to go through just because you couldn't get your dick wet. Doesn't matter if you're legally within right. All it looks like to me and others is some petty way to 1up her for not giving you the time of day.

>>18530834
It was a group of friends uni I kept in touch with. We were young professionals and we've went out quite a bit. I was a latecomer to the group, while most of them were friends from near the start of undergrad.

I don't like it. I'll be honest, I joined mostly because of her but I've grown attached to the rest too.

>>18530833
I'm not looking for monetary compensation. The lawyer actually wanted to put a monetary demand but I said no. I just wanted to clear things up with her.

You're bitter.

>get overly involved in someone else's life
>can't except women enjoy sex
>gets blocked

get over yourself OP

>>18530881
Repeating it won't make it true: I am not suing anyone for defamation nor have I any cases against me.
You haven't gone about this right way from the beginning; you've escalated things needlessly; and now you've lost your group of friends and are resorting to legal means for no real purpose, which will do nothing to restore that friendship (you know this, right?) nor your dignity, assuming you have an inkling of what that means. You former friends will turn on you even more, and you still don't realise that either.

Who's bitter now, nobby no-mates?

Video related: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5-isOhDXzg

first of all mind your own business, if someone wants to post porn or whatever, keep your mouth shut, this is how you get in trouble.

Next take the letter and all relevant info and consult with a second lawyer, maybe a third. If she is seriously damaging your rep, then you may have something

>>18530881
yeah lawyers always want to make things more complex, that's more time they can bill you for

>>18530909
Asking for monetary compensation is SOP. I asked her to forego that.

She was a young lawyer. Woman too. Fresh out of law school. I think still morally whole, just wants to do a good job.

I deliberately sought a younger lawyer because I wanted a personalized letter - not just to send a C&D template. She was willing to do that.

Re the porn, your advice is odd. Most people would find it disturbing to find on their feed. Whoever posts porn on their social account would be the one in trouble.

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>>18530938
Top kek

Recap... you want to sue someone because they think you are weird and have told their friends?

>>18530965
yeah, hard to think this butthurt freak is in his 20s and not 13 and role-playing...

>>18530357
post messages please, for a better assessment.

>>18530901
>You haven't gone about this right way from the beginning; you've escalated things needlessly;

Massive goalpost moving there from earlier when you were saying "her account had been hacked, she'd be justified you to block you" and "legally I have no idea and I don't care" >>18530781

You're bitter because of the way you talk - the amount of accusations you push into people from the get-go suggests you have a judgmental personality.

I don't know what you're doing in this thread but it's known that /adv/ is full of bitter women who want to tell men they're in the wrong for self-affirmation.

>>18530976
Late 20s. Have a STEM degree.

>>18530994
>can't read
That quote is lacking the first word: "Suppose".
You haven't been reading my posts properly. Perhaps English is not your native language. Then again, misreading things seems to be your specialty.

Suing people=self-affirmation? Good going, robro.

>>18531004
>Suing people=self-affirmation?

I meant /adv/ is full of bitter women who want self-affirmation by going around telling men they're wrong.

can we please just see the messages.