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Hi /adv/, so basically I have major feelings for a guy I've been friends with for the past say 3 years and I just recently left a toxic long-term relationship with someone he was friends with on/off. He's always taken my side and been a shoulder to lean on during break-ups and stuff and at one point we almost hooked up during one of said break-ups. I'm aware there are feelings there that still exist (he's a total loner, not really interested in having friends or anything) and we can hold conversations for longer than 14 hours on any given day, I just don't know how to pursue anything. I'm usually really direct when it comes to uncomfortable questions but I can't seem to pop the one of "are you still into me?"
The strangest part about all this is with any other "fling" I've had, I immediately became bored once the chase was over but this is the first time it hasn't happened. What do? I'm so fucking comfortable with him but I'm so lost on this one.
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Background info I probably should've mentioned
He's never had a serious relationship and doesn't pursue girls so basically not a 'fuckboi', he's just not interested because they're literal normies, he's far too shy to admit he'd like me though
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Nudge him into the right direction. Go out for drinks, or to a venue that inspires one on one get to know you on a deeper level time.
>mfw I'm all fucked up and tired giving adv
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>>18530042
A tad half assed response but if you want to bounce some questions of me I'm here.
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>more neckbeard fantasies
you really are on a roll today David
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If you can hold a conversation with him for more than 14 hours on any given day then you have way too much time on your hands
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>>18530053
Via text. I mean we both work and message whenever we have a free minute but it's almost constant. Although there have been at least 7 occasions where we'll spend a Saturday together and talk all the way through until Sunday morning until one of us needs to leave. Didn't clarify, my bad.
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