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So I used to gamble. A lot. I won a lot and I lost more, nearly

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So I used to gamble. A lot. I won a lot and I lost more, nearly my life a couple of times. I have felt bad for having wasted my time but am in a progressive and productive place now.

I'm 27 and 2 years removed from my gambling addiction. Steady job, debt cleared off and now going back to uni to fulfill some of the great academic potential I had when I left high school.

I even feel ready enough to entertain the possibility of dating again but I'm rather self conscious about my past and the fact I'm a fair way off where I really ought to be in life at this age and still living with parents, even though things are moving in the right direction.

I want to be straight up when women ask about my past but at the same time, I think gambling addicts are looked down upon with a special kind of disdain and talking about these things is something that comes up fairly quickly in any kind of courtship.

Any advice on the best way to approach this?
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they are looked down upon but any woman worth a damn would be proud of you for overcoming it for so long

if you feel like the woman you end up with doesn't know you it wouldn't be good anyway
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bro everyone makes mistakes. You're aware of them now and have a plan to move forward, thats a big thing.
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I have to concur with other Anons here.
If you want to be straight about it then be straight, but do it in a presentable manner - say that you're through with it in the same sentence you mention it.
Convince them that overcoming it is a much bigger deal than falling for it in the first place.
Don't forget to add how great of a learning experience it was, etc.

You know the drill - drag the attention away from shame and into the glory.
This way you can both be straight about it *and* score points. A win/win.

And if a woman doesn't buy it - then she sure as hell wouldn't buy it if you were completely blunt about it.
After all, it's not in your best interest to get into a relationship with someone who *wouldn't* like you if they knew.

Keeping it to yourself is a bad idea, unless you're not looking for anything serious - then it might pass.
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I agree that anyone who can't handle that about me isn't worth my time but I still worry that it might come up before there's a chance to really feel each other out and have a chance to show a prospective partner I'm on a good path.
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What's your craps strategy?
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>>18528575
I never touched casino games. I never liked what I perceived to be pure chance.

It was football betting for me. It was simultaneously a way for me to stay connecting to the game when my professional career failed and was appealing because I felt I had the knowledge to exploit the markets.
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