I feel so fucking unmotivated with my studies. I've been flunking subjects on my uni left and right for a bunch of semesters, I feel like shit after my finals end because I only manage to pass one 2 or 3 out of 5 subjects. I feel bad almost every day after I realise I had done nothing productive in it, tell myself to study or do something useful on the next one and proceed to do nothing on that day too. I don't know what to do with my life, I don't want to end like my father earning minimum wage and living on a shitty neighbourhood, but I still can't find the will to end up my mother, who got a degree, managed to move a decent place, raise me and pay for my education on her own (my parents got "divorced" before I was born, I never lived with my dad). How do I find the will to keep moving on? pic unrelated
>>18527669
Same problem here. Don't know what to tell you, actually I should do something for tomorrow and instead I wasted all the day doing nothing. One thing I can tell you about applying yourself, beginning is the hard part. Get past that and don't stop. Have a bump, even though we both should know there is only one solution, doing it.
>>18527669
Make a schedule where you negotiate with yourself to balance time to get things (that you don't like) done on one hand with time to enjoy doing useless things on the other hand.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OoA4017M7WU
Same here. It got better for me because the Masters degree is somewhat easier to pass than the Bachelor's.
Ask your mum for support. She can help you structure your day, setting everyday events like dinner at fixed times. If you both have work to do, you can do it together at the table. It's small things. She can help keep you accountable. I'm saying this because she went to University as well so she knows about the workload and self-discipline.
>>18528227
peterson si good for people who actually want to improve and have will do do shit
if youre in apathy hes useless