My Boyfriend is really Hostile

Leave him

>>18527248
>I really love him
if you can't help him get over his alcoholism, then you will either have to endure his being abusive or have to cut contact with him, which I believe would be the best for you.
you deserve happiness and even though you love him, it does not appear as he can give that to you.
it will hurt but you will be better off in the long run

Unless he actually gets help, he ain't gonna stop doing it. Either leave him or make him actually do something about this.

Leave him while you still love him. Or stay with him for years more and let time make you hate each other and your lives together

What do you mean by hostile? Because from what you wrote it looks like he just called you out on being drunk.

>>18527248
Abusers almost never stop abusing. Just like how cheaters will never stop cheating. It really doesn't matter how apologetic they are, sure it may be possible in some rare cases, but relapse is the norm and statistically he's probably not that one in a billion. Best to find a better partner.

You should probably leave. My dad was the same way, got drunk and would randomly become enraged at my mother and threaten to neat the shit out/kill her. And no it didn't get better.

>>18527596
I don't really drink, don't like the taste and I think it prematurely ages you. He's not an alcoholic either, he rarely drinks himself.

>>18527714
So he berated you for being drunk even though you weren't? You really need to clarify more. What exactly are you talking about?

>>18527827
Not OP but i think she meant "he called me while he was drunk"

>>18527835
This. He called me while he was drunk

>>18527248
he will never ever stop and will probably abuse you
t. another guy like him