Hi, /adv/. I'm a 19 year old single guy and I'm desperate for intimacy. I was in a relationship with a girl for about a week before she cut me off because we were going too fast. We almost had sex but she cut me off before I could lose my virginity.
I have no desire to be genuinely romantic unless it's physically gratifying for me. I don't want to take it slow. I suck at approaching and maintaining conversations with women, and online dating is bearing no fruit. I'm angry at myself for getting this obsessed with intimacy and I feel hopeless.
Straight up, lose weight and get a new haircut. No woman will think your Chad when you look like a crying Seth Rogen.
Give women something of value and they'll want you.
Fuck you and your desire to lose your virginity. It'll come when the times right. But you need to improve yourself first.
Take this the right way OP.
O don't even talk to girls rn you need to chill. I've missed alot of opportunities but what can i do. Its all my fault though just need to get my stuff straight.
>>18527192
The answer to your problem is in your own post. You want "intimacy" but don't want "romance". Unfortunately one is the absolute prerequisite for the other.
Intimacy is not just bare skin to bare skin. It is by its very nature emotional.
If all you want is to lose your virginity, with no real human connection, ask around for the most screwed-up, deeply disturbed and therefore promiscuous girl in your town. There always is one, and everybody knows who she is. And if you can exploit her mental issues just to dip your wick and be satisfied, go ahead. But it won't be intimacy and it won't be satisfying.
>>18527217
Fat crying, and young Seth rogen. But not as funny.