Just started dating my boyfriend a month ago he's very sweet but also damaged. He's been in the mental hospital twice for attempted suicide. He's bisexual and into things like trap porn, bdsm, hentai and pegging and has even asked me to pee in his mouth. I really like him but i feel like this going to somehow end badly seeing how much of a red flag in he is in pretty much all aspects and he's my first and i've never done anything sexual with anyone before him.
I heard a cliche once
DONT DATE CRAZY
>>18526660
This usually applies to women.
>>18526673
Yes, but only because they're usually the crazy ones.
>>18526673
no, you're just sexist
>>18526673
I'd say it's the same for men
Unfortunately, unless he's actively getting help and improving concerning his mental health issues, it won't end well.
I dated a guy with PTSD, who attempted suicide several times (not while we were dating). We had an amazing connection but he could barely function because he was an insomniac and always under the influence of something. He ended up breaking up with me, saying he could end up hurting himself or me due to his issues.
It sucks a lot, but that's the sad truth when it comes to mental illness. My guy never seeked help and couldn't improve, so if your guy has that kind of mindset too it probably won't work out. You can't help someone who doesn't wish to help himself first
>>18526656
Don't date crazy.
t. crazy
They don't change above a certain age. They never will. You will waste your young years and get damaged as well. Believe me, you can't help them get better. Go while you still emotionally can. Dating is there to find a sould mate, not use your motherly feelings to try and help out a degenerate.
Leave him and look out for a boy with whom you hamonize and can imagine a future. Someone you don't need to be ashamed off in front of your parents.
>>18526656
you basically just described me and jesus do i ever have to beat the women off with a stick, i dont know what it is about trainwreck that gets women wet
>>18526778
Most young women have been told that they don't need a man and children, while still biologically craving to be motherly, which results in them going after wrecked men so they can get sex and still act like a good mother which treies to help them.
No matter how hard feminists try o deny human nature, we can't change it, only find ways to simulate it till it backfires.
>>18526656
How in the fuck can you write that OP and not see horrible crash and burn? You must be really fucked up yourself.
The hentai shit isn't really that weird, speaking as someone who's into literally all of that but pretty well-adjusted, but the attempted suicide stuff is a bit of a red flag - triple if he's not seeing a therapist for any of this.
Go off your own judgement. Like other people said- don't date crazy.